One of the best resources I have found is this Wikipedia article which goes through basically each country and gives a basic rundown of the laws. I wish the page on exclusively fictional content was as informative as this one is, but unfortunately, it is not. To go even deeper into each country's laws would require you know the language of said country, as I feel most sources would likely be in the country's native language as opposed to english. Since like, it's most likely you'd want to know the laws of a country if you lived in said country, so the most informative information would be in the native language.
ManWithShoesForHands
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Supreme Court Decision Sets a Higher Bar For Punishing Speech As a "True Threat"
(reclaimthenet.org)
Germany allows loli content, so long as it does not “produce or reproduce an actual event.” It is illegal in Lithuania. This obviously does not say whether the content is/isn't allowed by your server host.
If you're looking for a privacy/speech respecting provider you might find this article semi-useful: https://crippled.media/free-speech-vps-providers-put-to-the-test it compares 7 “Free Speech” server providers based on the content they allow and their various terms.
I think @Disabled@burggit.moe wrote the article, actually.