Sorry that someone crashed your thread.
Burggit is the only instance that I have a feeling that I'm not swapping the repressive admin set from reddit for another repressive set from lemmy. I think the people of reddit are too used to being repressed. Being told what they can and can't post. Your title needs to look like this, you need to have these tags in your post, you most post every source in an image. No photoshop. No AI. There's certain body types you cannot post as determined by anyone who wants to use the report button. I see it on every instance where they preportally make a "safe space" by censoring and restricting the ever loving shit out of their community.
Every other instance I've seen has started where reddit left off: repressed enough to be advertisement friendly. I feel they do this because it's all they've known recently.
In this instance, I see the seed of it not trying to be a no holds barreled 4chan knockoff like some instance are, but a site trying to be what reddit was - separate groups coming together to make a small community. Rules in place to carefully guide it from being taken down or becoming shit. Rules about behavior rather than content.