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Maybe they can go to the malt shop later? And then the sock hop?

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[–] radiant_bloom@lemm.ee 116 points 7 months ago (7 children)

What even is a teen center ?

[–] gimpchrist@lemmy.world 61 points 7 months ago (4 children)

It's kind of like a library but not that many books, more condoms and snacks, often a projector and screen for movie Nights, and access to Community Resources like food banks and clothing places and counseling for gay people and stuff

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 43 points 7 months ago (2 children)

"Condoms and snacks"? I think you're thinking of the teen pregnancy center.

[–] RainfallSonata@lemmy.world 30 points 7 months ago

That's actually my library.

[–] SatyrSack@lemmy.one 16 points 6 months ago (1 children)

They're thinking of Regina George's house

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[–] Fisk400@feddit.nu 21 points 7 months ago

Yeah, communist shit. /s

[–] radiant_bloom@lemm.ee 7 points 7 months ago

Sounds like family planning ? At least ours is kinda like that ! (I’m French)

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[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 32 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Its different from a teen left-justify

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[–] CrayonRosary@lemmy.world 31 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Ours had a big TV for movie night, a snack bar, a Nintendo room, and an arcade in the basement. It was built in the mid nineties, and is still there, though I haven't been inside since then. It's probably all updated.

[–] OlinOfTheHillPeople@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

Same. Mine also had punk concerts occasionally.

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In the 90s, original teen center in my neighborhood was the YMCA or rec center. The adults complained and restricted a lot of the access to "teens with parents". Malls were kinda popular. But so was the nearest game store or comic store.

In the 2000s-2010s, it was coffee shops. But you had to pay to be inside.

The new "teen center" in my neighborhood was the library. Quality place.

[–] JJROKCZ@lemmy.world 27 points 7 months ago (1 children)

My small town (<3000) had one in the 90s, we had a dance floor with music Friday and Saturday nights, a projector for movies and a concession stand, and a mini golf course downstairs. In my later teens I helped convert an unused part of the second story into a haunted house/maze for Halloween.

The building was originally a warehouse built back when the town had industry around the turn of the 20th century. It was brick built so still in great shape even today and it’s been abandoned again for 20 years now

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It sounded great and you guys put a lot of work into that, why has it been abandoned for 20 years?

[–] JJROKCZ@lemmy.world 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

The town has just continued to decline, nearly everyone is either desperately poor, broken by their jobs so they can’t do anything or they’ll lose disability, on hardcore drugs, or so old/senile they can’t contribute to the community.

Nearest decent job and grocery stores being 45+ minutes didn’t help things. A few generations and it’ll be completely gone. I, like most capable children of these type of towns, fled to the city as soon as I was capable in search of a better life. Otherwise I’d break my back in manual labor and develop opioid addiction, or have my job replaced by automation and develop opioid addiction. Tis the fate of America’s rural Midwest

Back in the late 1800s-early 1900s the town counted over 60,000, by the early 90s around 3k was being generous with city borders and census counts. I honestly think they just stopped updating the sign to stave off depression and save money

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 13 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

My public library has one and has a bunch of teen books, manga, video games, board games, they just got some arcade machines, and they got some 3d printers. They got events going on from time to time for the kids as well.

[–] Fisk400@feddit.nu 18 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Libraries is literally the Atlas image holding up the last vestiges of community.

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[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 52 points 7 months ago (4 children)

There's a teen center 2 minutes from my house. Is it not normal to have a teen center?

[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@lemmy.world 72 points 7 months ago (4 children)

They don't really exist anymore. 3rd places have more or less been killed off.

You must now own a car and pay money to exist somewhere, at all times.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 17 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

TV makes it seem normal, but I've never seen one IRL. But then, I've also never seen a school that is entirely inside a single building or has multiple floors, either. And I'm sure those exist somewhere.

[–] IHateReddit@lemmy.world 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I live in Germany and not once in my life have I seen a school that doesn't have multiple floors.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 6 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I live in the US and I have never went to a school with only one floor.

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[–] VonReposti@feddit.dk 11 points 7 months ago

Funny, it feels like half of schools in Denmark are in multi-floor buildings, especially city schools.

[–] BottleOfAlkahest@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I went to a school that is one multi story building. It's not a big school though which may be why. Highly populated area probably don't see things like that anymore .

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[–] MufinMcFlufin@lemmy.world 9 points 7 months ago

The closest thing I've ever seen to a teen center was a sports facility that had a room for kids and teens to hang out, but that was closer to a babysitting service. Paired with the facts that you had to pay monthly membership dues ($25 to $100/mo these days, apparently) and the whole facility was meant for something else entirely, it's not something I would first describe as a teen center. Not any more than I'd call a high school a chemical R&D facility just because of its chemistry classroom.

Outside of that one room, I'm not aware of anything else nearby me that would be even remotely similar.

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[–] ptz@dubvee.org 45 points 7 months ago (2 children)

"After that, let's met up at the malt shop, listen to some doo-wop songs on the jukebox, and go see a movie at the drive-in."

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

We should bring all of that back. Well, maybe not the doo-wop.

[–] BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

why not the doo wop? i love doo wop. im the wanderer i roam around around around

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

What if we had a modern spin on it called new wop?

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[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

Dude, I fucking hate people. Drive-ins ftw, I don't need to hear about how Rebecca on the 7th floor is such a bitch for sucking Andrew in the break room when she knew that Elix (spelled with a silent k) wanted him first, and the group of four are all on Instagram and Facebook starting drama, on their phones, in light mode, with no end in sight as the movie is about to start.

When me and my best friend still went to the movies, we'd always have this kind of shit happen, and we had a routine where one of us would loudly start talking about how we didn't think dinner was settling right and we might shit ourselves, or retelling how a couple rows down (where the annoying people are at) is about where my ex blew me and the mess was still there last time we checked, or we'd just start letting out some (not so) silent-but-deadly farts. Whatever it took to make sure the movie was enjoyable, we'd go pretty far with things, but it worked 100% of the time, the group would always move away.

Not having to do that, having the a/c exactly as we want it, the volume at the level we want it, would be so much better. Really, less interaction with people in general would be a wonderful thing...

[–] essell@lemmy.world 40 points 7 months ago (1 children)

And yet when I give the same suggestion to my friends they all call me a perv

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 20 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Is it because you're in your 40s?

[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 26 points 7 months ago

No no, don't you remember? The snooty rich jock's father shut down the teen center after the outcast new kid failed to beat him in a 1-on-1 street hockey game.

[–] ChihuahuaOfDoom@lemmy.world 21 points 7 months ago

There's still a teen center where I live and kids do in fact hang out there.

[–] Simon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Sorry to burst your bubble but Teen Centers are a thing since always. My high school had one until someone burned it down in 2015.

Keep going on about how these evil grownups just don't understand you though, commenters. CRAWLING IN MY SKIIIIN

[–] Mirshe@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

They CAN be, depending on the area. My local neighborhood doesn't have one, and there isn't anything like that within the area of the city I'm in. "Third places" where you can just hang out with no expectations on you to purchase things or otherwise interact with that place's services are rapidly disappearing in the US.

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[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 20 points 6 months ago (10 children)

went to teen center in the 80's. Its not that old. I bet they are more prevalent in cities.

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 15 points 7 months ago (1 children)

None for me, I am going to the box social later today.

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[–] Kaiyoto@lemmy.world 13 points 6 months ago

To be fair, most high schook text books are clones of previous edition, they just update pieces to be relevant with the current era.

[–] yokonzo@lemmy.world 13 points 6 months ago

I graduated in 2013 and we had a teen center, it's still a thing. I assume as long as theirs teens there will be adults wanting to get them off the streets

[–] itsgroundhogdayagain@lemmy.ml 11 points 7 months ago (3 children)

The teen center was shut down after "The Incident".

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[–] harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 6 months ago

That sounds real nifty. I do so enjoy a good sock hop. I just hope they don't play any of that devilish rock music.

[–] fubo@lemmy.world 9 points 7 months ago

When I was in middle school around 1990, my family lived in military base housing, and there was a "teen center". It had a TV, stereo system, some arcade games¹, and a snack bar. It hosted dances on weekends; with one night designated for the middle-school crowd and one for the high-school crowd.


¹ "Red wizard shot the food!"

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 8 points 6 months ago

Let's go have some soda pop at The Malt Shop!

[–] jeffw@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Is this suggesting alternatives to doing drugs?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Drinking alcohol. After saying "'just say no' may not be enough" or something like that.

[–] jeffw@lemmy.world 11 points 7 months ago

All of the suggestions are things kids could just bring alcohol to anyway lol

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[–] nexguy@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Were where teen centers in the 50s and were they called that? I feel like that's a 70s and later thing.

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[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

My son and his friends used to hang out at the teen center when they were in JR high. Mid 2000s.

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