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K (189?–?) Soviet pioneer. From Kazan, Tartarstan, USSR, K was diagnosed as a ‘transvestite’ in 1937.

She was given permission by the People’s Court to wear female clothing, her identity papers were changed to her female name, and her name was removed from the military recruitment rolls.

She was featured in a 1957 gynaecology textbook.

M.G. Serdiukov. Sudebnaia ginekologiia I sudebnoi akusherstvo. Moscow: Meditsina 1957: 47-8.
Dan Healey. Homosexual Desire in Revolutionary Russia: The Regulation of Sexual and Gender Dissent. Chicago and London: The University of Chicago Press, 2001: fig 24.

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think my housemates are coming to hate me, they never seen to want to talk to me or spend time with me and always make plans with each other without including me. They don't seem to be interested in me or my life at all. They make decisions about the house without me and then just expect me to pay for things they buy for the house. One of them is a very good friend of ten years, and I think living with me has made him dislike me.

I've been spending a lot of time in my room alone lately because they seem to not want to talk to or see me. And I don't really want to see people who don't want to see me.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The purple is just as pretty as I hoped lea-happy Its a little glittery too, feels amazing.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

Did my nails and blindly mixed a black with an iridescent top coat called “unicorn.” Ended up with kind of acid green/night sky color. Quite delightful and unexpected.

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

thinking about that home made pesto pasta I had the otther day again. damn that shit was so good. fresh basil just has such a smell and absolute powerful verdant look to it in pesto

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Got some dark purple nail polish today, really looking forward to it. I've been wanting purple for a while now aubrey-happy

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Talk of sex drive on estrogens, masturbationBefore I didn't like horniness on testosterone because of how often I felt the need to get off, and overall I think I'm some form of ace so that made it worse. On estrogen I rarely feel horney and its so nice. I can just go like 2 weeks without getting off and just be fine, and when I do get horny, I actually like it

bottom dysphoria, masturbationMain problem is I still get erections. Even if I just stimulate the tip I still get them, so maybe a vibrator will help me idk. Just having a dick and balls just annoys me, and having to see them if I want to have fun times is frustersting.

Also I still get random erections and it sucks

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

not going out tonight, too busy singing a meatball marinara song to my dog

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Thinking about the time I texted my sister "okay but what if I was trans" one evening, and then the next morning followed it up with a good 'ol "lol nvm."

And now here we are like a year later.

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[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Put on my old grey sweatpants (only a few years old tbh) and

spoilerGODDAMN MY ASS IS FAT

Can't really wear my old clothes anymore IG. estrogen is magic fr

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (16 children)

Not trans related but I want few things more than to neuralyze math knowledge from the general populace so we can break this cycle of math being taught and retaught in the stupid ass way it's currently being done.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Noooooooo, it's cold war time in history class again. I'm already hearing about soviets trying to conquer the world, and the war happening between "democratic capitalism" vs "authoritarian communism". I ALREADY DID THIS BIT LAST SEMESTER, PLEASE DON'T MAKE ME DO IT AGAIN walter-yell

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I remember one time I went out in public with eyeliner and painted nails this old white woman came up to me and said as sweetly as possible "Jesus loves you" before walking away. Chat what does this mean cat-confused

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

I still miss sharing a bed with someone else 😭

Not even for sex or for cuddles, just the light snoring and warmth is what I miss the most

[–] Wake@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I just scheduled my first hair appointment under my girl name and she/her pronouns. niko-dance

I've always hated getting my haircut, so I'm more than a little anxious about going. The salon is queer friendly, but it still took like an hour to work up the courage to schedule it. They even ask for pronouns in the booking interface.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Thank you for your call, we are experiencing higher than normal call volumes...

I don't think I've called a big company since like 2009 where they weren't experiencing "higher than normal call volumes." On the one hand, it makes sense that I'd be calling during their busy times I guess. But every time?

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (10 children)

I remember being pretty good at linear algebra once, calculus never really stuck though. I vaguely remember it all like a dream but maybe if I could get some materials thonk I've no real use for it but prob beats being a gamer

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (5 children)

cost for me and my partner to get the train to the town nearby: £18

cost for me and my partner to drive, then park for six hours (inc. fuel): £11

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (10 children)

I think I can manage bottom dysphoria if I can find a way to never have spontaneous erections again 🤔

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (8 children)

sigh

if i want a GF i have to download shudders the apps, don't I?

yeah :(

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Download amogus, trust me.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)
[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I ain’t a girl, are transfem enby hugs acceptable or nah hexbear-non-binary

No worries if not, I just love giving hugs.

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

car is fixed for reals this time

[–] RION@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Me when I feel less anxious/more certain about HRT when people treat it positively instead of like I'm poisoning myself

Starting as soon as the pharmacy ships to me. Feel a little bad not telling my mom about it but if she wanted to be in the loop maybe she shouldn't have reacted so drastically¯⁠\⁠(⁠°⁠_⁠o⁠)⁠/⁠¯ plus my family doesn't tell me things all the time so not like they're some shining example

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[–] D61@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Homosexual Desire in Revolutionary Russia

Well... if I were to ever do one of those "self publish e-book slop on Amazon" things... I've got a title for the series.

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

My girl shorts arrived and I’m in love with the way I look in them 🥹 but I might have to get tucking panties or some shit like that if I ever want to wear them outside my bedroom 🥲 I was worried medium might be too small but it’s just right and maybe even a little loose lol

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

My cat is being chaotic again, running around, trying to stop me from getting work done. She's restless, but she finally settled down and is watching me type this. Unfortunately for her, I have to get up now. Sorry, Lenore doggirl-gloom

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[–] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

cw: transphobia/homophobia, unhinged parents, ventListening to my mom go on and on about how queer and trans folk need to be thrown into mental institutions because "they want to get extra privileges that 'normal' people don't even have to accommodate their disgusting lifestyles" and other things like "they're trying to rewrite our language by saying we're not allowed to say things like queer or [insert slur], like they're just words grow up!". Like please hasan-stfu, I am begging you for the sake of my mental health

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I actually scheduled a consult with a voice coach. It's been like, idk a year now and I have made no progress with my voice so hoping that a voice coach can help me. Only problem is that I'm not out at work so I will not be able to go full time with my voice :(

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm really proud of myself for wearing a skirt in public all day yesterday, I felt quite cute. it probably helped that my partner was there, but tbh I realized I could have done it without her too

with how much I struggle to feel qualified for feminity with my body the way it currently is, this was a really good step. it'll definitely make the wait till surgery easier if I feel a bit better too :p

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Dreamt I got turned into a snail but I wasn't bottom-speak like the rest of y'all I was top-use-words and doing what I could to evade capture. My spirit was still strong I was a badass mollusk theory-gary

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