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Talk of sex drive on estrogens, masturbation
Before I didn't like horniness on testosterone because of how often I felt the need to get off, and overall I think I'm some form of ace so that made it worse. On estrogen I rarely feel horney and its so nice. I can just go like 2 weeks without getting off and just be fine, and when I do get horny, I actually like itbottom dysphoria, masturbation
Main problem is I still get erections. Even if I just stimulate the tip I still get them, so maybe a vibrator will help me idk. Just having a dick and balls just annoys me, and having to see them if I want to have fun times is frustersting.Also I still get random erections and it sucks
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My random erections went away, eventually. I still occasionally get one from getting turned on but it's not very useful for topping anymore and goes away pretty quickly after fun times, at least now it drips when I'm really horny which is pretty affirming. I still maintain masturbation but not really for pleasure, it's just to keep the skin for bottom surgery later. I bet if I stopped or only did it when I actually felt it, I'd probably lose it entirely. It does feel like a chore and not a particularly fun one which is probably doing ongoing psychic damage lolT horny was awful, like a prison. E horny is nice! Which makes sense to me, I'm a girl. I do wonder if trans men on T feel similarly about their new T horniness.
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Same with me regarding E horny. It fits me so much better. T horny felt like some bs I never signed up for. As you said, it makes sense, as we are women! I know and have discussed this of our transmasculine comrades and most of them similarly love T horny. It is funny when the boys describe how it feels when they first start T and their libido skyrockets. They comment something to the tune of "you dealt with this for over a decade? Their libido settles just like ours generally after a year+ on the proper hormone, but that initial spike is really funny to hear about.spoiler
Switching to E is worth it simply for the libido change alone. Guess there's other medications that could accomplish the same though?I almost never get random erections, but I they're the norm during intentional stimulation, but I don't mind them there.