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K (189?–?) Soviet pioneer. From Kazan, Tartarstan, USSR, K was diagnosed as a ‘transvestite’ in 1937.

She was given permission by the People’s Court to wear female clothing, her identity papers were changed to her female name, and her name was removed from the military recruitment rolls.

She was featured in a 1957 gynaecology textbook.

M.G. Serdiukov. Sudebnaia ginekologiia I sudebnoi akusherstvo. Moscow: Meditsina 1957: 47-8.
Dan Healey. Homosexual Desire in Revolutionary Russia: The Regulation of Sexual and Gender Dissent. Chicago and London: The University of Chicago Press, 2001: fig 24.

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think my housemates are coming to hate me, they never seen to want to talk to me or spend time with me and always make plans with each other without including me. They don't seem to be interested in me or my life at all. They make decisions about the house without me and then just expect me to pay for things they buy for the house. One of them is a very good friend of ten years, and I think living with me has made him dislike me.

I've been spending a lot of time in my room alone lately because they seem to not want to talk to or see me. And I don't really want to see people who don't want to see me.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I've lived with two close friends, not at the same time but one after another. The roommate relationship was like poison to the friendship for us as well. The first one just isolated herself, I felt bad because I think she thought we took up all the space and she couldn't step out. The second one wanted WAY MORE closeness, like she got mad that I ate supper because "she was planning on all of us eating together" but like, I didn't know that plan and I was hungry right then...

It was all too easy to let the friendship slip, cause you live together you don't have to make plans to maintain the friendship, right? But of course you do, it still takes effort and then inevitably there's some regular conflict like she won't do the dishes as often or she is way too loud with her, uh, gentlemen callers while I'm working from home or whatever. That side you don't see or at least aren't as affected by if you're friends that don't live together, and it does damage the friendship.