Congratulations! I'm just past a month, and I absolutely get it. It's especially fun on those days when you're feeling extra dysphoric ๐ฅฒ
Something that's helped me a lot was realizing that it's just a really lazy coping/defense mechanism from the brain. Being trans is kind of (incredibly) scary, and so it's just those echos of fear and doubt saying "Well, maybe if you just weren't trans, things would be way easier!". Then you can calmly tell that to shut the hell up, and continue living your best life :3
Unfortunately, these actually might not show if the GFI is working, and might give a false negative.
If there is no equipment ground, the outlet must be labeled as such, but it is allowed by code so long as protected by GFI. However, since all these testers do is shunt hot to ground, if there's no ground connected, it won't work and appear if the GFI is not working. However, assuming it's working, it will still do its job, since it they protect against ALL current leakage, and not just ones through the outlet's ground path (otherwise they'd be pretty useless).
I had a "landlord special" where they extended an old 2 wire box with no ground, and my PC case shocked the fuck out of me after I had the carpet cleaned and was walking on the damp floor. A ground would likely have dissapated that bit of current leakage, but also a GFI would have probably tripped when I touched it. They weren't willing to run a new wire with a ground because, unsurprisingly they were cheap fucks, but I convinced them to install a GFI for safety at the very minimum.
Also worth noting that these things are easy to fool for ground, since it's bonded to neutral, and shitty electricians will tie them together at the outlet to trick the tester into seeing a "ground" when it's actually neutral. It's dangerous as fuck, and the only way to check is by taking the plate off and seeing if the outlet is properly wired.