Willowthewisp

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when did you change in your dreams? in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

I don’t remember, it’s been a while now and it’s a miracle I can even remember that detail more than a few minutes beyond waking up.

Years after the convoy, Ottawa residents are 'reclaiming' the Canadian flag in c/canada@lemmy.ca
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I don’t know what they did in Ottawa but they ruined the flag for us here in BC too. Whenever I see it on a vehicle I think they’re probably a terrible person.

Trump says auto tariffs coming around April 2 in c/canada@lemmy.ca
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Does this idiot not realize all of his “American” cars are made in Mexico and then imported??

GOP advances bill that would allow Nazi flags while banning Pride flags in c/lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 47 points 1 week ago (4 children)

“The pride flag pushes a political agenda” and the nazi/confederate flags don’t?!

when did you change in your dreams? in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I’m half way through month 5 and I’ve had a couple dreams with myself as a woman. Probably started a few weeks ago.

What is your favorite app for Lemmy? Include Platform. in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

I looked in the settings and there was just compact and cards and the cards are half the size of the ones in voyager.

Bad UX is keeping the majority of people away from Lemmy in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I can browse the All feed but not much interests me there. I’ve found a few on my instance and stumbled upon some from other instances via links in posts but if I find a community on something like the website you posted I have no idea how to get there and subscribe to the community. I try to paste the link into the search but that just treats it like a keyword to search my instance.

What is your favorite app for Lemmy? Include Platform. in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I downloaded thunder and voyager. The cards are way too small on thunder so I’m using voyager.

Sometimes I'll read or hear someone say something but can't think about it in c/autism@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh wow I just found the post on the front page and decided to take a look. I wasn’t expecting to learn that I have APD. I have the hardest time following a conversation right in front of me if other conversations are happening nearby. Parties can be so difficult.

Apple is once again advertising on X after more than a year in c/technology@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

There’s tons of pictures of Tim hanging out with trump so I think it’s pretty obvious.

Tumblr to join fediverse in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago

Oh you mean the one run by a conservative who’s a massive bigot? Greaaaaat.

Bad UX is keeping the majority of people away from Lemmy in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
[–] Willowthewisp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Uh yeah. I’ve got no clue how to find new communities? Instances? Groups? Whatever the hell the equivalent of a subreddit is called. It’s not user friendly at all.

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I did it! I made the appointment! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

I made the appointment to talk to my doctor about starting HRT in a month 😸

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Talks with family (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Last night my fiancée told me that she is very happy for me for figuring myself out and that she doesn't feel that we need couples counseling relating to my transition anymore which is exciting. She did say that she has realized the main problem she was having is that she is mourning the past. She mentioned one of her favorite early memories of us was me wrapping my manly (eww) arms around her from behind. She realizes that these are just that, memories and she'll have to get used to things being different moving forward.

Today met my mom at Starbucks and got my first ever Starbucks drink at age 28 and she asked me about my transition. I had previously come out to my whole family as non-binary and said that I may transition in the future. She is under a lot of stress from other things right now so my transition has been an extra thing on her mind recently and has been upsetting her a lot. This is fair, I understand that it's not just a big deal for me but also for everyone around me and I have been careful because of that.

My 6 years younger brother transitioned years ago and being young he was rather aggressive about it, it was a "get used to it or get lost" kind of thing which I understand, if I figured out I was trans as a teenager I might have been like that too. My mom was worried that I might be like that so I reassured her that is not the case, I am older and more mature and we can all be adults about it but I also need to do what's right for me.

Before I met her I wasn't sure if I was going to bring up my transition. I like to be thorough and only update people when I am sure about it and I had been thinking of waiting until I had been on HRT for a bit and was certain about it before giving my family an update. I am glad we talked about it now though. I don't have to worry about it aside from know how stressed my mom is in general and that I'm contributing to that. It is what it is though, I'm not slowing down for my family. I just told her that my fiancée is using she/her with me now but my mom and family can keep using they/them for now.

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