Hello new Lemmy friends!
Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.
The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.
Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.
We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!
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The smug vibe she’s giving off lately is intolerable. She says ‘we’re’ but I do believe she’s alone. I detest it when she does that! Once again she’s treating it like it’s a big secret to drive engagement.
She IS intolerable lately!!! The arrogance is pissing me off.
Legit can’t stand this smug ass woman. Go be with your kid who is graduating high school this week ffs!! Didn’t she post something the other day saying “when I’m not being a mom, I’m so weird” or something? Like when are you even being a mom.
She really thinks she’s like some world famous supermodel or actress. Her secrets are so boring, all she did was go to NYC to eat a bagel and watch a premiere of something everyone can watch, she didn’t even get to meet the star. BORING!!!
She so lacking in self-confidence these trips are wasted on her. She had a whole evening in NYc and she spent it alone, in a hotel room talking to her phone.
The worst. I couldn’t imagine being flown somewhere for free and given a free hotel and just spending my time in a big vibrant city talking to my imaginary friends. Like go for a dinner even if alone, go walk Times Square, do SOMETHING! She wasted a free trip being a loser.
She is afraid someone will catch her in the wild and snap an unfiltered pic. So she stays in lol
She is like Michael Scott's favourite NYC pizza joint being Sbarro. Go see (film) ONE well-known anything in New York City?!?!?!
every time I see sbarro I think of that 😂
But you’re so right, great comparison.
She's completely squandering an opportunity so many people would kill for. I'd LOVE to go to NYC, even for a Day
Her secrets are SO BORING! Yes! Meeting celebrities is not exciting. Holding celebrities on a pedestal is infantile. What a waste of resources to ship this shitfluencer off to New York to watch a movie. This is getting absurd.
Not defending Birdie, but those graduations are next week. Trust me on this 😉
Do people actually respond in excitement about where she's going? Like who goes a fuck. Go home and be a mom
I wonder how her hubs feels about all this travel. Mine travels a good amount (will be away forty days this year) and not going to lie, sometimes i resent it. Like he can do these things because I stay home and hold down the fort. Asking because I know how I feel about it and I wonder if he is truly ok about it. Or maybe he just appreciates the break.
And the fact she leaves and he’s meant to watch after her 3 kids. I know he’s obviously taken on the role of step dad and wouldn’t have married her if he wasn’t ready for that but still, she just leaves with no regard that everyone has to pick up the pieces for her.
Maybe he doesn’t mind but I think it’d piss me off 🤷🏻♀️
I’ve always wondered about that shared custody arrangement. If I were the other parent I think I would have said something about her being home when the kids are under her care because I know I wouldn’t be so quick to hand my kids off to a step-parent when they are home alone. I’m not throwing shade at step-parents but I don’t think it’s their responsibility.
I believe her kids are with their dad this week aren’t they? They left on Sunday so I assumed it was their dad week.
I share custody too and I 1000% agree with what you said here.
They don’t do week on/week off. They split the week. When I first followed her it was Wednesday afternoon - Sunday around noon for her
She has them all convinced she's very important and super busy doing important things. Sheay regret all this meaningless travel away from her family as she gets older, although I don't think she cares about much but her own instant gratification and external validation. She's gonna be one messed up old lady.
And the house renovations, the cottage, poor husband!
Such a good point! Obviously it’s his life too but she just drops everything and expects Shane and NK to pick up the pieces. Yet you RARELY see him go off to be with friends, his family, a trip by himself.
Being apart so much strains any relationship, and it's hard enough when it's for work. 90% of her solo jaunts are 100% more entertainment than work. Calling what she does "work" is a joke and an insult to people who actually work.
I lived in your shoes when my kids are small and it’s hard. They travel for work and when they get home they’re tired from all the travel.
"You'll see who I'm seeing in LA soon!!!!!" It's just one of her friends. lol
I love how she talks about her circle like they're famous and well-known. Outside of their middle-aged women insta niche, who tf knows any of them?
no one 😂
So did she fly to LA just to see Bailey?? Is there something else?
She wanted to make it known she actually has friends since we question it so much lol
I think they must message asking what she’s doing. If they don’t then it’s extra stupid that she keeps making this kind of post!
I’m drinking from a paper straw and this woman flies just to NYC to watch a movie and eat a bagel alone in her room.
Now onto LA, I can’t imagine the waste this will be.
Influencers who are flying everywhere all the time really don’t care about the environment at all. I mean, it’s obvious with overconsumption and fast fashion, and pushing brands on people left right and center, but when you find out they’re going to in person events all the time outside of their country back to back to back, then they don’t care about the world their kids grow up in. Let’s just wait to see if there’s any complaints from her about the extreme heat and hopefully someone can say like “stop freaking flying around all the time contributing to extreme pollution!”
Ugh!! I’m so glad we are talking about this. It’s a dire situation. To waste resources on something so profoundly pointless is disappointing. It’s a movie? She listened to a celebrity blubber about it? Was that really worthy of the wasted resources? Was there not enough shitfluencers in New York to attend this event? I think people need to become more aware of the impact celebrities have on the climate crisis and stop supporting their empire of bullshit. You can still enjoy the art when you separate it from the artist. You can still appreciate an artist and hold them accountable. Forcing us poor folks to drink out of paper straws so that the wealthy can continue to exploit our resources is fucked up.
She could have gone to Toronto to see it with Joanna, but nope, let’s fly to NYC to sit in a theatre there.
EDIT. To watch a movie way far back. Miss Iconic was given row N. Bwaaaaaaaa. Loser.
Her carbon footprint is insane!
She’s make me sick. She thinks she’s so famous jetting around like Taylor Swift.
If anybody hasn’t blocked the random person who stopped what they were doing, popped in here and took the time to make a comment about people wasting their time on criticizing her behavior, you should block them. This person criticizes people calling out the use of filters and over consumption, but they are okay about racist comments about India? Go block them. There is no space here for racism and random racists popping in here.
I have removed his comment and blocked the user. Sorry it took me a bit. Feel free to message the mods if something like this comes up again.
Thank you!