The smug vibe she’s giving off lately is intolerable. She says ‘we’re’ but I do believe she’s alone. I detest it when she does that! Once again she’s treating it like it’s a big secret to drive engagement.
this post was submitted on 18 Jun 2024
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I wonder how her hubs feels about all this travel. Mine travels a good amount (will be away forty days this year) and not going to lie, sometimes i resent it. Like he can do these things because I stay home and hold down the fort. Asking because I know how I feel about it and I wonder if he is truly ok about it. Or maybe he just appreciates the break.
And the fact she leaves and he’s meant to watch after her 3 kids. I know he’s obviously taken on the role of step dad and wouldn’t have married her if he wasn’t ready for that but still, she just leaves with no regard that everyone has to pick up the pieces for her.
Maybe he doesn’t mind but I think it’d piss me off 🤷🏻♀️
I’ve always wondered about that shared custody arrangement. If I were the other parent I think I would have said something about her being home when the kids are under her care because I know I wouldn’t be so quick to hand my kids off to a step-parent when they are home alone. I’m not throwing shade at step-parents but I don’t think it’s their responsibility.
I believe her kids are with their dad this week aren’t they? They left on Sunday so I assumed it was their dad week.
I share custody too and I 1000% agree with what you said here.
They don’t do week on/week off. They split the week. When I first followed her it was Wednesday afternoon - Sunday around noon for her
She has them all convinced she's very important and super busy doing important things. Sheay regret all this meaningless travel away from her family as she gets older, although I don't think she cares about much but her own instant gratification and external validation. She's gonna be one messed up old lady.
And the house renovations, the cottage, poor husband!
Such a good point! Obviously it’s his life too but she just drops everything and expects Shane and NK to pick up the pieces. Yet you RARELY see him go off to be with friends, his family, a trip by himself.
Being apart so much strains any relationship, and it's hard enough when it's for work. 90% of her solo jaunts are 100% more entertainment than work. Calling what she does "work" is a joke and an insult to people who actually work.
I lived in your shoes when my kids are small and it’s hard. They travel for work and when they get home they’re tired from all the travel.