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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").โ€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

supermarket meal deals are british bento

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

Four waffles is too many, but it's all the machine makes. In less than five minutes, bounty begets melancholy...

  • The Tortured Breakfaster
[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

in a fierce golf with your friends showdown with my gf

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

mental health, it's fine now but aaaaaaAlmost had a little meltdown because this

lil' stinker found a cardboard box in my closet to hide in and then fell asleep and couldn't hear me looking for him everywhere thinking that he got out somehow and ran awayboohoo

โ—

๐Ÿ“ฆmeow-bug

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[โ€“] Luna@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

I don't think I've ever longed for site admins to allow pronoun-maxing more than today. I feel like I need a third set of pronouns for some reason cat-confused

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

whining, dysphoriaI haven't complained about it in a while, but voice dysphoria continues to be terrible. Want to come out to a friend or two, but the thought of using my voice, egh. Obviously the actual coming out can be over text, but after that bocchi-cry I can't explain it. I hate pretending to be a boy, but saying I'm a girl and sounding like this...

Voice is just disgusting and horrible. All wrong. I don't have any idea how I'd want to sound either, if I could pick.

I know it won't get better without voice training, I know I need to, I know I should, all that. I'm not trying right now, I just can't. I know nothing will get better until I do. not worth continuing this and typing out all my self hatred.

spoiler I've said this before, but I'm thinking about it again and not like I can tell anyone irl I remember not liking my voice changing during puberty. Thought that was normal and I'd like it eventually. Clearly I was wrong, and tbh I wonder if I'll ever like my voice again. Current trajectory isn't looking good. How sad. Just ruined by T. ::: fwiw yesterday was quite good for me, very calm. A nice break from some of my usual struggles.

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Day one of Gabapentin Is For Losers, Cold Turkey Gang, I Ain't No Fuckin Loser:

I stop taking the anxiety med, dead-dove-1 I have more anxiety when I'm going outside dead-dove-3

No bad withdrawal stuff though, baby tier. I'm goin' back to anxietytown.

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[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

i blow dried my hair today for the first time in a while and it turns out that it makes my hair very different (normally curly hair became kinda straight?), huh...

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[โ€“] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

Yesterday I was photographing a self bondage set in a small grove between some trees, a sort of lost in the woods thing wearing the green dress from Howl's moving castle and a pair of blue wrens landed on the branch next to my head and hung out there for a few moments, I didn't manage to get the picture with them because I was too surprised but I'm a motherfucking Disney princess.

[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

monster zero ultra fills my veins

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Me in 2022, an egg listening to the Town Inside Me:

"Yeah, this is okay. Kind of weird and disjointed"

Me in 2024, transitioning:

"This is the most important song I've ever heard in my life"

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (28 children)

I have rotted my brain out, no cwsOkay so like... if no physical trait or anything is inherently gendered, which is true, then surely hormones and other physical things like that can't be an aspect of gender expression...? Just looking at that written down I realise I must be missing something, but my brain is sort of dumb right now. Stop taking gabapentin and The Gender Thoughts awaken immediately shulk-vision

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I wrote all of my emotions out in a clear and concise way over multiple paragraphs following the narrative I intended to explain

that deserves an energy drink imo

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

Day whatever of being a moody irritable asshole. I dislike this because I'm not really able to talk to people like this, I have been ignoring matrix (hello) all day as a result. Just being a shitty asshole on websites instead :)

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[โ€“] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

new pronouns dropped

get yer ae/aer pup/pupโ€™s thon/thons

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[โ€“] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (28 children)

@ashinadash@hexbear.net

re : carpenter

i hesitate to call any of his other movies shit after vampires cringe like sure prince of darkness puts me to sleep but at least the concept is kinda cool. halloween is honestly high art in comparison. even his weaker films tend to have something to enjoy but vampires is where the macho bs brainworms truly took over. it cannot be overstated just how aggressively awful it is. like just thinking about the fact that i ever gave it another chance makes my blood boil agony-turbo

anyway yeah i'm familiar with most of his work but the thing & they live are the only ones i ever feel like revisiting anymore.

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

pokemon leaks got my monkey neuron activation goin over and over

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

Kinda dismayed that I could have missed being a fucking weeb. I wouldn't know what that fucking goddamn Demon Slayer reference means if I hadn't seen One Piece and Naruto on YTV, and then seen that there was a dumbass english-language manga magazine that serialised them. Goddamn, Shueisha.

[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

health and academics ventingi feel like i don't really have much of a choice but to withdraw from one of my classes due to my health issues, which will place me on their version of an academic warning. it's incredibly frustrating because i was working hard at all my classes and i feel like i'm just getting punished by my school for things that were completely out of my control.

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

damn. i regret my choice of girl name today after realizing i could have named myself Ligma

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

Might get a TikTok just because my YT Shorts is increasingly becoming reactionary/normie garbage for some reason.

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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