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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").โ€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

an NSFW joke a tad too far, tbhhow can i ever even earnestly call myself a trans girl? i've never fucked a pumpkin before

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[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Been trying to play more Warhammer 40k - Rogue Trader and I just....can't really get into it.

some light spoilers in the end, mostly just a rant about crpgs and making the player a big fucking deal but the gameplay doesnt reflect thatThere's a lot of dialogue and that is completely fine. the turn based combat? also fine, great even. What I can't fucking stand is the running, the constant running from place to place, to scavenge every single locker to see if I can find something to use or sell. I'm supposed to be a big fucking deal (tm) in the universe. Like I have a room sized "Warrant of trade" that the corpse god personally signed^1^ for me, but I'm still personally running around and looting every fucking supply closet to see if someone left a Broom + 2 in there?? And I know for a fact that if I don't in later chapters some lvl 69 Peasant is going to one shot my gall even if she is in power armour, because I missed out on the Duster + 12 that was hidden in this one guy's toilet.

uuuuuugggghhhhh lea-ugh just give me a game where I get teleported from conversation to conversation and battle to battle please. The cRPG looting simulator shit is getting tiresome to me.

Had the same issue with Dragon Age Inquisition too, actually. Two things, stop making me such a big fucking deal right from the get go OR give me servants who loot everything!! treat me like shit instead of a member of nobility and I can totally understand looting everything, but goddamn. Getting quests from my own subordinates because their lives are in danger or some shit. BITCH I OWN YOU!!!!! You go fetch your grandma's knickers or whatever the fuck this quest is about. Better yet, I'll make you the loot bitch who runs after me, how does that sound?

Stop. Making. Me. A Leader. If. I. Cant. Give. Orders. Please.

^1^ ^might^ ^not^ ^be^ ^from^ ^the^ ^emperor^ ^himself^

[โ€“] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (5 children)

maybe it's too late to be different

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (8 children)

How do I make my wrists stop hurting? They are sore, when I turn them, exert straight force on them or hold something with weight.

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[โ€“] Wake@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I decided to finally mod in a female codriver into my favorite rally game. It's so much nicer than the robotic British dude shouting at me.

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (6 children)

The next mega is loaded. Sitting in the chamber... Ready to fire.

Hold... Hold for the right moment... Until the news mega is in sight...

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[โ€“] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

spoilerinsecurities at a high the last 2 days mostly laying in bed, staring into space, trying to pick a youtube to watch

don't really kno what is ok to say or not. obviously i made generalizations and i have reflecting and reading to do. much of my staring into space is related to this

spoiler why do i talk, expectations, ideation everyone memes about freezing up and not knowing what to say, but speaking on that earnestly is not something people wanna hear. if someone had explained to me in explicit detail how to outgrow these things as a teenager, i literally would have. and i only say that because people make it seem like changing is easy, like it doesn't require a 1v1v1 Battle With Executive Dysfunction and Established Logic. i've made multiple comments about feeling trapped on rails, etc.

it is frustrating to see other people speak on their issues and have more positive outcomes. maybe that doesn't matter. maybe i literally shouldn't expect anything.

what i don't get is how having zero expectations from the world is different from the void i was staring into before i realized that my issues were related to gender and sexuality, and i kinda just wanted to be dead. because i really thought i was straight, i thought i was a guy, and that it was the end. and even typing that is hard.

if i go back to lurking, it's not personal. i just ran out of jokes. :::

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[โ€“] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

the second to last episode of a season of Bojack Horseman, except it's just how things are now

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

eating, dysphoriaDecided I should eat something before bed, got upset the calories won't go towards tits, think I'll skip it. Goodnight mega.

god I want tits.

[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

whiningI woke up feeling awful this morning, time to play the guessing game of "is it allergies AND food poisoning" or "do I have covid again and I need to never have even people who rarely go out over since I mask when I'm in public and I can't have gotten it with a kn95 right???" or I guess it could be like a weird sinus thing or overexertion from work or just allergies ig. when can I upload my brain to bearzone and become the hexbear?

Anyway meds are kicking in, so I guess I gotta go to work lol yay

edit: maybe I did too much physical stuff the past couple days too, or maybe its the sudden temperature change, or...

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

Today in Too Late, Who Gives A Shit news:

Cuckoo by Gretchen Felker-Martin fucking rules, not surprising. I'm diggint this pattern of authors coming back with second novels that rule, May Leitz, uhhhh Lily Seabrooke Idk.

Like, Imogen Binnie did not write another novel, (yet) Torrey Peters has not written another novel, Hazel Jane Plante did and it wasn't good, rip. Maybe the new Alison Rumfitt is good, at this rate!

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