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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

My orientation didn't exactly change but the way it expressed itself did if that makes sense? Always been pan but the way I relate to other genders when I started transitioning felt a lot different. From what I've seen and read, libido changes in either direction towards ace-heart or panting are both totally normal, as is a change in orientation.

anecdotally (slightly thirsty)I'd always been attracted to some men but never found masc guys attractive until transitioning and then at some point into starting hrt I noticed at the gym my brain was going crush for burly dudes and thought they smelled good??

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

My libido is basically zero and nothing has changed on that front, but after realizing that I'm not aromantic, I just don't want to date as a guy, I was watching a movie with a scene of romantic intimacy, and it clicked in my brain. "OH! that's why people bang! Emotional intimacy!" Which is something I knew conceptually, but that was the first time I actually understood. And for the first time ever I thought "you know what that could actually be kinda nice."

I'm so curious what is gonna happen if/when I get my ass on hrt.

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 3 months ago

sexual, not explicit but just general libido stuffPrior to starting hrt, my libido was like an annoying physical chore I just had to occasionally deal with, like being busy and realizing you haven't eaten and then getting food becomes a chore

Afterwards I've actually been able to enjoy it sometimes, being more in tune with your body really allows you to actually be sensual and connect with a partner more

(and hrt added some new erogenous areas lea-blush )