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[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Can take being yourself to figure out, and if you are still ace it may help you figure out what kind of ace you are.

I've always been ace myself.

[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

what kind of ace you are.

i so so so want to go down this tunnel ... despite wanting to learn all the other stuff too ... are there different kinds of ace? i have a really weird relationship to sex/romance but i think the conversations here about vampire kissing simulator have made me really curious about it

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

There's numerous ace-spec identities think of it like the autism spectrum. Some are more common, like asexual, demisexual, and greysexual, and can stand on their own as identities, other's are microlabels or identities that fall under the umbrella but cannot stand on their own and must be used in addition to another ace-spec label.

here is the pie chart
There's also a wiki which should help somewhat

[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

oh! that is ... a different kind of pie chart than i expected lmao, maybe I'll check out the wiki the metaphor is a bit difficult to follo-

https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Fictosexual

madeline-scared why did they make a page about me

oh man, i am gonna have to do some thinking about this.

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Good luck figuring things out, can take a bit very-smart

[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

yeah, i think it's changed over time too, the other comment i made was true when i initially transitioned ... but over time it's changed

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago

Not surprising, people can change over time or suddenly too or because of other factors. We aren't set in stone.