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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Good rant, thank u for ranting. I have no concerns about you from what I've seen and am seeing tbh. You worry about not giving yourself processing time, but I don't. Your logic looks rock solid to me, this is making you feel good and live good. If you're afraid of living as someone you aren't, transition is the best thing to do about it, and yeah, worst case you can just stop.

You're going a lot faster than a lot of people I see, but honestly uncritical support. Recently I'm seeing a lot of people do things pretty fast, like SnowySkyes, and I think it's great. Don't let anyone put dumb dents in this new confidence you have, do what makes you feel good.

Just make sure to keep us posted โœจ

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I will keep you all posted :) I love posting here. And honestly thanks for the vote of confidence. I'm a little self conscious about my speed, but it helped me out a good deal reading your post.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yw! I think it's only so unusual because of transphobic systems. If hrt were freely accessible and social transition did not carry potential risks, I think people would speedrun it all the time, and tbh I greatly respect your determination. Reminds me of myself cat-trans

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I owe my speenrun ability to the megathread, straight up. I can guarantee I wouldn't be where I am without the wonderful words of wisdom of the based-ass trans people on this website.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I have noticed both broadly and in the mega, the more information and knowledge gets spread, the earlier and faster people realise they are trans :3 which slaps tbh.

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It does slap. I only wish I had access to this kind of information as a youngin'. Though maybe it was for the best that I started figuring this stuff out after I had already moved out of my parents' house.

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago

The best time to have transitioned is when you do it meow-petted it does help to be away from parents tho yeah.