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[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It is mildly disappointing that they're like this, I honestly feel more bad for them and how it'll affect them. Other than that though I don't take it personally, I guess since I used to be like them in my beliefs so I know why they're like that and it doesn't hurt me. I hope at the very least for their sake they can learn to overcome their bigotry in the future, though I know it'll likely never happen.

By the way, I did leave shortly after the incident. I just got a Tupperware container, packed it full of food for me to eat when I got home, and I got in my car and left.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 13 points 2 days ago

Yeah I guess, I don't really feel that bad though, just kind of sorry for them that they can't be better people. Like I said it doesn't surprise me. They think it's a phase right now. I wonder what they'll say when I have boobs. Actually I'm kinda excited to see. I got some good comebacks for whatever they might say ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm not a fan of this meme, it seems too much to imply that a person who doesn't take HRT or hasn't taken HRT is still cis because of it, transmedicalism is not cool.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Understandable, I meant it as a way to stand up for trans people who are non-op or pre-op (can't afford surgery or can't get it at all) and being discriminated against based on their genitals.

Also my comment was directed towards a transphobic shithead who was spouting transphobia apologia saying that we shouldn't fight back against transphobes because "they're people too".

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago

Yeah I tried wearing a beanie recently and it was not pleasant. Can't wear them like I normally like to rn.

Also thanks for the suggestion, I think those will look very cool.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I'm working on growing my hair out as well, it's frustrating how slowly it grows but hopefully it'll be long soon. Then I plan to dye it too, just like in my profile picture.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago

Oh, I'll definitely keep that in mind, gotta make sure to be extra careful when drying off after showering.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

That's reasonable, I did it now because I wanted to, and also because I know the sooner I do it, the sooner the healing process can start.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

I say don't let that stop you, if you want to get your ears pierced you should absolutely do it. Don't let judgement of stupid people stop you, do what makes you happy, and be who you want.

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah I was told I should wear only the stud until it heals completely.

 

They're still a bit sore afterwards but overall I'm thrilled. I've always wanted to get my ears pierced but was told since I was a boy I could only get one pierced, so I never did it back then, but since I'm not actually a boy (I'm a trans girl) I figured why let that stop me.

Anyone got any recommendations for earrings I should get that suit a tomboy aesthetic? rn I have only the basic studs but I'm looking to get some more for after the healing process is complete. Any suggestions?

[โ€“] dipshit@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's kind of a joke post but also kind of not, since I aspire to be a very butch, very Masc tomboy transfem. I'm not concerned if I pass enough for people's tastes, I just want to be happy and be myself, my true self.

 
 

So today I'm getting chest dysphoia really bad, and I feel sad and upset. I'm hoping I can get on HRT soon but I know it'll be a long time, especially since I just came out. So I wanted to ask, how does everyone here who hasn't started HRT yet cope with chest dysphoria? Is there something I can do to maybe feel better, even just temporarily?

 
 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

 

I want your opinion of how she looks. Do you think she looks pretty, do you think she looks cool? Both?

 

Yes I included beard and mustache stubble on purpose. I like my little fuzzy bits of beard and mustache and I plan to keep them even as I transition and become more feminine, though I'll likely always present and act more masc since that's what I like.

My only real source of dysphoria at the moment is towards my flat chest and the fact I lack any breasts, it makes me sad and I hope I can get on Estrogen soon so I can begin to change that.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/49671489

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in !asktransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

Recently today I realized that I am in fact a trans girl. I made a post about it in !asktransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone and after that I was reflecting a lot on my past, the mistakes I've made, and I realize I've made a lot of them. I've said horrible things about and to LGBTQ people, and just awful shit in general when I was younger. I was a young and stupid kid and I would say horrible things online, things I heard from other people or read online. Things I now regret and feel horrible about. I know I can never excuse any of them just because I was younger but I do deeply regret those mistakes, and I am deeply sorry I said any of those things. I know that isn't an excuse but I hope people can find it in them to forgive me for my awful mistakes and accept me as a new person.

 

I used to think I'm a guy, I like many masculine things like motor sports, fixing cars, playing shooters. Things that typically boys like and I have no desire to wear girly clothes or anything like that. But I've always when I was younger liked hanging out with girls more than I liked hanging out with other dudes. Maybe that's not weird but I liked their company more, like how other boys would hang out with the guys, I liked doing that but with girls.

Recently I met someone new, she's a lot like me in her interests and even her style, and I learned she's transfem and that has made me question whether I might be trans myself. I asked her to call me by she/her pronouns for a bit to see how it feels, and I got a rush of happiness when she referred to me with she/her pronouns. So now I'm not sure if I am a guy or not anymore. I don't have any discomfort towards my penis and I do think I'd miss it if it were gone, but lately I have been getting discomfort related to my chest, it feels flat and empty, and wrong. Like it should be bigger than it is. It doesn't seem normal for a guy to feel like that.

I really need help, is it normal for a guy to feel like this or does this mean I might be trans?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

 

Seriously why? Discuss.online has horrible moderation and open-signups, and Lemm.ee isn't very much better. If lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works were completely nuked to avoid the moderation headache or risks from two large open servers, why aren't lemm.ee and discuss.online banned as well?

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