Yeah I guess, I don't really feel that bad though, just kind of sorry for them that they can't be better people. Like I said it doesn't surprise me. They think it's a phase right now. I wonder what they'll say when I have boobs. Actually I'm kinda excited to see. I got some good comebacks for whatever they might say ๐
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I'm not a fan of this meme, it seems too much to imply that a person who doesn't take HRT or hasn't taken HRT is still cis because of it, transmedicalism is not cool.
Understandable, I meant it as a way to stand up for trans people who are non-op or pre-op (can't afford surgery or can't get it at all) and being discriminated against based on their genitals.
Also my comment was directed towards a transphobic shithead who was spouting transphobia apologia saying that we shouldn't fight back against transphobes because "they're people too".
Yeah I tried wearing a beanie recently and it was not pleasant. Can't wear them like I normally like to rn.
Also thanks for the suggestion, I think those will look very cool.
I hope so
I'm working on growing my hair out as well, it's frustrating how slowly it grows but hopefully it'll be long soon. Then I plan to dye it too, just like in my profile picture.
Oh, I'll definitely keep that in mind, gotta make sure to be extra careful when drying off after showering.
That's reasonable, I did it now because I wanted to, and also because I know the sooner I do it, the sooner the healing process can start.
I say don't let that stop you, if you want to get your ears pierced you should absolutely do it. Don't let judgement of stupid people stop you, do what makes you happy, and be who you want.
Yeah I was told I should wear only the stud until it heals completely.
It's kind of a joke post but also kind of not, since I aspire to be a very butch, very Masc tomboy transfem. I'm not concerned if I pass enough for people's tastes, I just want to be happy and be myself, my true self.
It is mildly disappointing that they're like this, I honestly feel more bad for them and how it'll affect them. Other than that though I don't take it personally, I guess since I used to be like them in my beliefs so I know why they're like that and it doesn't hurt me. I hope at the very least for their sake they can learn to overcome their bigotry in the future, though I know it'll likely never happen.
By the way, I did leave shortly after the incident. I just got a Tupperware container, packed it full of food for me to eat when I got home, and I got in my car and left.