[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 50 points 9 months ago

Definitely as a millennial I'm of the last generation that will remember arranging to meet up somewhere in advance and sticking to that plan (or rearranging over landline with more than a day's notice...)

But something I've noticed when I ask people in my team what their dream jobs are the younger people tend to say 'run their own businesses', 'work for themselves' etc. Whereas in our generation (in my circles anyway) that definitely wasn't so prominent. Maybe a side effect of seeing influencers making it big?

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 46 points 10 months ago

That's a very black and white way of putting it. As long as you're an adult who can tell the difference between fantasy and reality, and you're not spending hours obsessed with it I don't think it's unhealthy. The way you phrase 'avoid it completely' makes it sound like you're going out of your way to avoid it already.

(I think the problems are coming through with the generation being 'brought up on porn', and thinking real sex is like it is in the videos online but that's a different story really.)

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 33 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I'm guessing the 2 uses you already know are 'joke' and 'to retch/nearly vomit'?

Another meaning of 'gag' is to physically tie something around their mouth to stop them from speaking (like in films when people get material or tape in their mouths to muffle their cries for help in a kidnap scene? That material would be the 'gag')

Obviously in this instance it's not a literal gag, although I'm sure there's plenty of people who wish it could be. A 'gagging order' is a metaphor for not being able to speak about things

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submitted 11 months ago by HipPriest@kbin.social to c/books@kbin.social

I finally finished this book this week (I took a year long break somewhere around page 400) and it's left an impression but I'm still not sure what I think.

It's a book set during the Third Reich told from the point of view of a cynical SS officer - but not so cynical he still doesn't think there's still some value in the work that he does. And his work takes us from the Einsatzgruppen Death Squads, Stalingrad, Auschwitz and explores other dark places, including his extremely disturbed personal life - it's not an easy read. He meets several real life characters, famous and obscure, notably Himmler, Eichmann and the commandant of Auschwitz, Hoss.

There's not much unreliable narrator stuff going on actually, because he's not particularly repentant about his crimes despite obviously being scarred by them - the narrative voice is more like one of the downtrodden private investigators you'd get in a detective novel. It's especially interesting to explore the Nazi mindset from a perspective from someone who's cultured, intelligent, and has decided to incorporate it into their worldview and can argue to himself, or for the reader's benefit or both - why what he's doing is the 'right' thing, or at least no less unacceptable than what is going on on the other sides in the war.

On the downside - this book feels far longer than it needed to be. It's nearly 1000 pages long and without spoiling too much I didn't feel like the relationship with the narrator's twin sister or how things resolved with his mother were necessary in an already packed book. They ultimately don't really go anywhere important and feel like filler.

I really liked the lack of sentimentality in the book though, there's no attempt to make the situation better than what it was. It's probably not something that anyone would want to go through without some interest in the Nazi period; that said given what's just happened to Israeli and Palestinian civilians it's a reminder that the potential is always there for people in organisations to treat life as a cheap thing to be dispensed with if that's what their leaders say

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People who have turned to X for breaking news about the Israel-Hamas conflict are being hit with old videos, fake photos, and video game footage at a level researchers have never seen.

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Morrissey must track down the missing sheet music for 'Suedehead'

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The home secretary backed police and ordered a review of armed units after officers protested over a murder charge


Background on this for non-UK people -

  • Black guy shot by armed policeman whilst sitting in his own car.

  • Policeman arrested for murder, released on bail.

  • Last weekend armed police 'strike' by dropping their weapons because one of their own has been charged with murder

As per usual the victim is being forgotten in all of this while it turns into a massively corrupt political game.

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Can you blame it?

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 50 points 1 year ago

I mean this isn't miles away from what the writer's strike is about. Certainly I think the technology is great but after the last round of tech companies turning out to be fuckwits (Facebook, Google etc) it's only natural that people are going to want to make sure this stuff is properly regulated and run fairly (not at the expense of human creatives).

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 47 points 1 year ago

VPN subscriptions in the UK will be a lucrative market then for people wanting access to, let's see, Wikipedia...

I'm interested to know what the Signal President meant when she said she's much more optimistic about working with the government than she originally was.

The thing is it obviously does come from good intentions, and it's very rare you'll find me saying that about something to do with the Tories. But it's so obviously the wrong approach and yet here we are. Thanks for nothing. Yet again.

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 42 points 1 year ago

I'm a long time vaper, it's got me off the cigs, and I use a reusable tank because it's what I've always used but it's obviously better for the environment and cheaper.

I do support clamping down on disposables because of the waste and these ones seem to be the ones that get into the hands of kids.

However, the whole scare thing about ecigs has always looked like a massive diversion tactic when actual cigarettes are still on sale. I mean it won't happen because it's kerching for the government. But I see literally thousands more discarded cigarette butts than I do vapes round our way.

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 32 points 1 year ago

I use a VPN which has an excellent ad & bs blocker. But occasionally some sites need me to turn it off to pay for things or whatever and I forget to turn it back on and end up browsing the internet in its normal state.

And wow... welcome to commerce central. It's not that all the ads are obnoxious though some are, but the quantity of them is out of control on some websites.

To be fair, I've found it's a good rule of thumb that the quality of a website is usually proportionate to the less amount of ads they have.

I also reviewed mobile games for a while and had to play without a VPN to get the same experience most players would get - game ads are the worst. Unrepresentative of the games they're trying to sell, but also often sexist (veering towards misogynistic), obnoxious and with false endings.

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The reshuffle, thought to have been deftly managed by Sue Gray, made a shadow cabinet heavy with stalwarts from the Blair-Brown era


I don't know about other people but I really was hoping for more than a sequel to the Blair years. I mean I get they need experience but the Tories are on the ropes, the Centrists in the party have had 13 years to come up with new ideas...

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[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 37 points 1 year ago

I mean the article is specifically about Google search. Which might have gone downhill since whenever it first came out with the introduction of ads (sorry, 'Sponsored Results') but I'm not seeing significantly better competition for delivering search results. Everyone is still just aping the brand leader.

DuckDuckGo is obviously better for privacy for example but it doesn't seem to have any ambition except to deliver the same results as Google but without the ads and tracking which is ok but not a big enough draw except for people already concerned about privacy. Bing gets essentially the same results but if anything seems more spammy than Google with pop ups about making it or edge your default search engine or browser. It feels like other search engines just take Google search as something to copy and put their spin on it though.

I'd say search is one of the things Google is still getting right enough to earn its place as the leader. Some things it does well, some things it has badly declined on (someone above mentioned Google assistant hardly understanding anything anymore, when it used to be the best in this area too), but generally you can replace most Google things with programmes doing things their own way. Search engines just feel a bit like reskins to me

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submitted 1 year ago by HipPriest@kbin.social to c/firefox@lemmy.ml

So I'm finally switching to Firefox (admittedly for the quite shallow reason that Chrome has dropped its dark mode for websites toggle)

Wondered if anyone had any pro tips? I've installed uBlock Origin and Dark Reader extensions. I've made an account so it'll synch tabs etc across my tablet and phone. Just wondered if Firefox on mobile had any nice features worth trying out

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I think this is a contender for the worst opinion column I've read this year - completely pointless, irrelevant and come on Matt couldn't you think of anything a bit more interesting that happened this week?

Paywall free version https://tinyurl.com/47m2een8

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 46 points 1 year ago

Guilty verdict not a surprise after reading about the case earlier this year. Having a nurse on the wards supposedly looking after the most vulnerable babies in hospital and instead killing them is every parents nightmare.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by HipPriest@kbin.social to c/nottheonion@lemmy.world

‘Eurowings should be ashamed of how they handled this situation,’ says passenger

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There was no finished script or even an ending and a key cast member became fatally ill during the production. Three decades after the release of the landmark Hollywood thriller, the cast and crew …

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I got an invite code and so spent a bit of time browsing around because I'd heard good things about it. But I was surprised at how basic and non-diverse it all is. The forums are preset and are very generic. The conversations are definitely better than Reddit, but no better or worse than the ones I've had with people on Fedi.

Kbin is definitely my new home but I do like checking out the other options - I'd just heard really good things about Tildes and it definitely didn't match up with what I was playing about with today. Anyone else had a go at it? What's your take?

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 90 points 1 year ago

I'm a fan of the BBC, they make a lot of terrific programmes and the breadth of the audience their radio stations cater to is pretty phenomenal.

They also have a history of experimenting with technology so it's not a total surprise they've taken this step. Since most people on Mastodon are either sharing British news sources from the BBC or The Guardian anyway it will be interesting to see how they fare...

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 151 points 1 year ago

I'd be hugely surprised if this isn't full of 'this sub is restricted' 'this sub is NSFW' 'fuck u/spez', John Oliver pics, Lemmy, Kbin, Apollo and all the other 3rd party app logos...

So much iconography to choose from. The admins will be all over it trying to censor it

[-] HipPriest@kbin.social 33 points 1 year ago

Admittedly I've blocked the meme communities in my feed - but that's not what I wanted from Reddit or I want from here.

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