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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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TBP friend group. I suggest everyone take a look at the Jillian Harris reddit snark. Yesterday Justin Pasutto- Jillian Harris's fiancé and baby daddy send an email blast from Pasutto Media to Jillian's email list. This is against the law in Canada. People are reporting Justin's email blast as spam. A JH follower responded to Justin's email, writing that she never agreed to receive emails from Pasutto Media and labeled the email CASL (Canada Anti Spam Legislation). Justin's response was to threaten the JH follower. Justin accused the woman of spamming him (???) and wrote "How bad do you want this to get". Jillian and TBP are good friends, they are good friends with Alicia Mccarvell who openly doxes people. These influencers think they are above the law.

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[–] bunniculamonroe@lemmy.ca 14 points 5 months ago

This is a big yikes and illegal. I would be so livid and embarrassed if my husband used my email list that I worked so hard at building for his own personal gain. It makes her look bad, harms her business, and is a direct violation of trust to her and her followers who signed up. Unless of course she granted him permission which make her just as guilty. He shouldn't even have access to that stuff.

[–] Blaze@reddthat.com 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Seems crazy. Someone should probably sue them

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 8 points 5 months ago

They should, this really rubbed me the wrong way. TBP pack are all trash.

[–] auntiemameishung@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 months ago

I don't get it. Why would women want to follow Justin Pasutto? Just because he is JH boyfriend? Doesn't he have a real profession? They're just peddling crap. "Oh look how happy we are, please buy our crap" 🤣

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 8 points 5 months ago

This is next-level crazy town behaviour! Can I say I’m surprised? Nope.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 months ago

This has been wild to follow today. He’s so unprofessional.

[–] Quietnomore@lemmy.ca 5 points 5 months ago

This was the definition of unprofessional. You can just see how these influencers think they are superior. I think their days are numbered. It is definitely worth taking a look at what went down on Reddit today!

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

There’s been even more screenshots posted on that group since! It’s so amusing to think of Bustin and Shilly spending their time responding to people’s emails personally. Nether of them can spell either.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I feel like that sub is going to get banned after this 🤔

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 5 points 5 months ago

I’m sure they’ll all get banned eventually for one bogus reason or another. People are waking up to how influencers really are though and there’s nothing they can do about that.

[–] olivesandpoppies@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It won’t matter because the people who were harassed are already forwarding the information to the CASL. There are big fines and big charges associated with companies sending out mass unsolicited emails. Some them are on there suggesting that they repay him by also spamming him which is the wrong strategy, because they just need to deal with a specific issue of reporting the unsolicited emails.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 months ago

I see that he is denying the mass email. I have missed how he explains how all these people are getting this email sent to them or did he just ignore that part 😂

[–] Spicykitty@lemmy.ca 4 points 5 months ago

Insanity 😳