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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by HornyOnMain@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

agony-shivering LIKE SHUT THE FUCK UP, WHY ARE THEY FUCKING SIMPING FOR ME, THEY'VE INTERACTED WITH ME THREE TIMES AND THEY LITERALLY CALLED ME M'LADY TWO OF THOSE TIMES AND THE OTHER TIME IT WAS A COLD DM FROM A COMPLETE STRANGER

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[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 98 points 1 year ago

Also someone called me transphobic for saying I wouldn't want to date a chaser

[-] ElChapoDeChapo@hexbear.net 60 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

jesus-christ you deserve better than that shit

[-] alycat@hexbear.net 40 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Wtf, I just saw that comment. I thought the transphobia issue was just isolated to the old 196 post.

CW: Transphobia spoiler

It is presumptuous to think that you speak for the trans community as a whole

You may have a distaste for verbiage

In essence, your take on what is and isn’t phobic, is in and of itself, phobic.

I'm going to report it to see if anything actually happens. You never said you spoke for all of the trans community, and the person replying to you seems to think they are allowed to

Edit: It actually got removed, I don't see it anymore

[-] SuperNovaCouchGuy2@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago

Literally vaushites explaining why not wanting to date abusive psychos makes you transphobic: morshupls

[-] alycat@hexbear.net 35 points 1 year ago

vaushites

That explains everything

[-] SuperNovaCouchGuy2@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago

I hate that creepy abusive libshit since we have to deal with his unending hordes of creepy sycophants.

[-] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My friend's band would sometimes have shows in the city V**sh is from so there is a chance, however small, that I shoved him in the pit a decade ago. I mean it probably never happened. But it would be funny if it did!

[-] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 30 points 1 year ago

The wording seems to suggest that the v**shite accuser isn't calling them transphobic but "chaserphobic", but knew not to write it out like that because it would make more obvious how stupid and disgusting their assertion was

[-] ratboy@hexbear.net 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Holy moly, that is such a garbage response lol. It just became very obvious to me in the past year or so just how much people will spew the most meaningless takes and try to pass it off as intelligent because they have a decent vocabulary. Just because you use the word "verbiage" does not mean that you know what you're talking about

[-] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

That specific reply user is also one of the most vocally upset about the admin defederating from lemmynsfw over CSAM concerns.

[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Again, every LGBT person I've met in the real world, including myself, hates "chasers". Trans women and trans men hate them, bisexual women hate them for trying to find a "unicorn", lesbians hate those clingy straight guys that think they can "convert" them, gay guys hate those straight women that always hang around and think they can make weird sexual jokes and think it's fine because they're gay.

Me and my friends make jokes at the expense of these people all the time. Being pro chaser seems to be a terminally online phenomenon.

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[-] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 71 points 1 year ago

You got an unironic m'lady in the year of our lord 2023? Incredible stuff

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[-] eatmyass@hexbear.net 53 points 1 year ago

Federation has opened my eyes to all the types of people I was absolutely sure did not exist anymore in the year of our lord 2023

[-] Frank@hexbear.net 48 points 1 year ago

Our three years in exile were a blessed time.

[-] eatmyass@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago

The mods have brought me kicking and screaming back into the real world and I don’t like it one bit (I actually love fighting with libs though)

[-] UmbraVivi@hexbear.net 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's a new age m'lady.

Back in the day, redditors used m'lady to be condescending towards cis women and be their cringey idea of "classy" alongside wearing a fedora. That kind of thing is pretty dead.

Nowadays, chasers say m'lady to virtue signal to trans girls that they see them as their real gender. This is all the rage rn, I see it all the time from trans girl reply guys. Same vibe of "look i'm showing you basic courtesy now will you show me your tits" though. Also kind of an uncomfortable indirect emphasis on someone's trans-ness if that makes sense.

[-] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 30 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

cringe

Thanks for this (horrible) context

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[-] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

I just saw an unironic "checkmate, epithet" in the year of our lord 2023, ao anything is possible

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

For additional context, they saw my post where I was jokingly referred to myself as Lady HornyOnMain and then they referred to me like that in other threads

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[-] honeynut@lemm.ee 64 points 1 year ago

When they were just on Reddit, 196 seeming to be a community of mostly children at times being encouraged to be horny and fetishize trans folk was at least a bit yikes which is why I never engaged with them.

HB jokes about the volcel vanguard a lot, but there's a kernel of truth for how much less horny this instance is which is good for discouraging chaser behavior.

[-] Frank@hexbear.net 45 points 1 year ago

volcel police is a joke with a point. I keep it up to try to keep the horny posting limited to one or two comments. Ace comrades have expressed unease with hornyposting in the past, so, volcel police.

[-] VOLCEL_POLICE@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago

The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

volcel-police

[-] Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago

I also appreciate that it's kept to a minimum because I'm old enough I could be a lot of the users here's dad lol

[-] Thordros@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago

I am one of the users here's dad.

Don't ask about it.

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[-] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 25 points 1 year ago

I put hornyposting behind a spoiler typically

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[-] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 40 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There was a lot of chaser stuff on the old subreddit which always I always found kind of gross even as a non-trans person. Plus a lot of people who were very horny for like AOC and Tulsi Gabbard.

There's a reason that the volcel police bit was developed over there, and a lot of that shit has gotten purged over here over time

[-] eatmyass@hexbear.net 32 points 1 year ago

Hahaha I remember when tulsi posted a pic of herself doing yoga and a bunch of people ended up getting real horny for it. There also, it seemed to me, seemed to be a population of people promoting voting for tulsi in the primaries, seemingly based on nothing except that she wasn’t joe Biden and they were horny for her

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 25 points 1 year ago

orb mommy too

[-] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago

I had a roommate who wanted to vote for Tulsi purely because he was horny for her, so this is no surprise to me

[-] VOLCEL_POLICE@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago

The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

volcel-police

[-] Parsani@hexbear.net 36 points 1 year ago

Anti-horny aktion is important to keep the creeps away

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[-] CriticalResist8@hexbear.net 54 points 1 year ago

The only two instances one needs is lemmygrad and hexbear. In whichever order they prefer.

[-] kristina@hexbear.net 52 points 1 year ago

yea this is why its important we have trans supportive spaces, not chaser spaces

[-] a_talking_is2@hexbear.net 49 points 1 year ago

yea, you know they're not just randos from the sub. It's much worse, it's their d*scord server.

[-] bigmonkey@hexbear.net 45 points 1 year ago

Since we're defed now, would it be against the rules to name and shame this creep?

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 54 points 1 year ago

I'm pretty sure they're a kid so I decided against including screenshots or anything, if they keep it up I'll just block and report them

[-] bigmonkey@hexbear.net 42 points 1 year ago

Fair enough, though might be a good idea to report sooner than later. If they are a kid then maybe they'll learn something from it. Actually, the blahaj mods would probably take their side kitty-cri-screm

[-] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago

Based on their record, the mods would DM them, accept any excuse, and do nothing further.

[-] AssortedBiscuits@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago

They already argued with the admin before with some really fucked up argument (it involves CSA).

[-] Frank@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago
[-] Twink@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago

I muted 196 very quickly so I didn't know what people meant by chasers and... Yikes. Sorry. Pardon me. M'yikes.

[-] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 37 points 1 year ago

M'LADY

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[-] alycat@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The m'lady comment got removed which is good. The user is not banned tho which is upsetting.

[-] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago

Idk, on one hand it was pretty uncomfortable but like ig since they seem to just be a child based on their profile I feel like they should maybe just get a telling off and allowed to realise that it wasn't appropriate rather than just an outright ban. If they're an adult though just ban them on the spot imo.

Also please could you remove the image with their username in, I purposely left it out of the post to avoid people harassing them because again, there's no way anyone old enough to buy alcohol unironically calls themselves a vaushite and acts the way they did, and I wouldn't want to risk the chance of hexbears being horrible to them.

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