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Double-hatching (pawb.social)

submitted 8 months ago by RiikkaTheIcePrincess@pawb.social to c/nonbinary@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Firstly, buuuuump! hehehehehehehe

Secondly, so, my trip to enbyness has taken a bit of a circuitous route, right? It took ages to realize that, hey, y'know... maybe I don't have to be a guy. I can be a girl! Yaaay! Finally free! So I hatched and be'd a girl for a while (... where did the past decade go, please help me get it back). Well, I kindof always expected I'd end up creeping enby-ward at least a bit but recentlish I got to having some feels and it's been getting to the point where I'm occasionally getting bits of a second dose of that hatchy euphoria. Turns out, I can wear through the gender hangups and start to just be me, right? So, double-yay! Kinda feels like I'm cheating, honestly 😅 Most people only get to hatch zero times, and even lucky trans-critters mostly only get to hatch once. So here I am, delightedly double-dipping discovery, digging into my 'dentity and hoping maybe somecritter around here has a story to share :3 That or I'm just yapping into the void. Even still, maybe I can fan the lingering enbers (harharhar, see what I did there? :D ) of this community!

Also any neat tricks for finding/committing to names/colour schemes/avatars would be nice :3 Actually I should probably just have another poke at making an avatar and just go for it but eep >.<; Triple-eep at making a top-level post 🙀

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[–] AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago

Love this post! You have such a fun playful style of writing and it's a style that I never see on like, reddit for instance. Emojis are really looked down on there and language is expected to be pretty standardized. I love how much fun u have w it :3

Thanks for sharing your story! :) My partner was binary trans for years before they came out as nonbinary, which far more matches their identity.

I myself thought that binary trans was the only option when I was in high school so I pushed that egg deep down down down until my early 30s when it cracked open. When I first was thinking about transitioning, the idea of fully going fem just didn't feel right for me. I feel so grateful to live in a s o c i e t y where it's more welcomed than in the past.

[–] knightly@pawb.social 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Mow!

Hehee, I made it to my mid-30's before I realized that only occasionally wearing some falsies wasn't enough! I'm 7 months into jormome therapy now and it's been amazing ^___^

As for advice, I'm afraid I don't have much. Presentation is hard! XD

[–] zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I love jormones

[–] knightly@pawb.social 2 points 8 months ago

Jean-hormones. XD

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 8 months ago

I love this post :3 Really cute how you describe hatching twice, thats very creative.

[–] vestigialthorn@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

That is awesome for you. I have loved reclaiming my masculinity since letting go of it. I feel like I’ve just had an everlasting emergence and metamorphosis rather than a singular hatching.

I wish there was a similar community here, but the vibes over at r/ftmfemininity are emaculate.