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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Anyone know a good budget alt/goth clothing store here in Yankee land?

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[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

validity and body dysphoriaSome days I still wonder if I'm really trans or if I convinced myself of something something something.

Those same days I struggle to hold back tears as I stare at my own legs and compare them to my girlfriend's and think about how much hair removal I need to pass a vibe check in the mirror.

Such is life ig


In happier news I finished my last session of laser for this round and I'm really happy with the results. Gotta wait a few days or 2 weeks or so to let it grow out and see how it actually looks now so I can get a new referral. Gonna try and see if I can sneak the little hairs between my eyebrows as well as my sideburns in the referral.

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (6 children)

I've started Freshwater by Akwaeke Emezi for class and... this books is about plurality. It's about plurality, right? It's definitely about plurality.

It's also beautifully written, like wow it's been a while since prose has knocked me off my feet like this.

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[–] What_Religion_R_They@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

just remembered that i was joking about having the sticky out bits at the side in my hair like suletta (see picrel) a while back. and i realized that my dumbass has basically had this haircut since then because i keep trimming my hair "when it gets too long" (effectively i am perpetually keeping it in the awkward stage). is this profile picturative determinism?

now i just need to make the ahoge to complete my idiot transformation.

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kids across the street are explaining hawk tuah to their parents

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Just spent 3hrs to "hike" 5.2mi (8km) which involved a lot more crawling under blowdowns and scrambling up and down steep valley slopes on all fours. Despite this, I am not a pup. My watch says I burned 1250 calories, though, and I feel great. Now riding a cable car to a temple.

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[–] starkillerfish@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (12 children)

I've been seeing TMA and TME in bios on tumblr lately, and Jules Gill-Peterson talk about it a little. I know what they mean broadly, but was wondering what's the story behind them? What's the reasoning behind using them? Kinda afraid to ask, but online searches haven't been very helpful.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

grossHitting the backrooms so hard I noclip 😩

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

spoilerOrgasm any% speedrun

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My tumblr fyp is turning into a stream of gay hazbin hotel fanart 😓

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Today I wore quite the interesting outfit. I had to work with it being really cold this morning, while getting really hot in the afternoon. So, I ended up wearing my signature black cardigan with my Fire Emblem: Three Houses Black Eagles graphic tee instead of my sleeveless turtleneck. Additionally, since I wanted to wear a skirt, but it was cold in the morning, I wore my flared jeans with the skirt over them, as well as my black combat boots (I think they're combat boots). The flares at the bottom of the jeans poked out from the bottom of the skirt, so it looked a little weird, but it served it's purpose, I was never too hot or too cold all day lea-finger-guns

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I don’t even know why, but I am not a fan of Tumblr’s format.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

Twitter-type goofy reply/"reblog" structure! Idm what's in the water down in silicon valley but they gotta stop drinking it.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Alright you all, how visible is my new PFP? I need eyes other than my own for this, and I can't tell if I need to tweak it or not. Can you all tell what it is?

here's a picture of my cat so this post actually has substance. She has a habit of not eating, which she's practicing right now.

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Anyone else marvel at how different people are in different places every day? Like I’m not in the exact same place same time every day, but I have a rather consistent schedule, and it’s weirdly random how many people cross my path. I think “why didn’t I see them yesterday or last Tuesday here,” and such. “How and why” for each occurrence. It’s fascinating but hard to investigate (do I make a spreadsheet? That would be weird and difficult.)

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

Revealing critical lore to someone about themselves and leaving without giving any meaningful action to take

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

cw: nsfwjust saw a video of a cis girl using a knotted dildo to knot her urethra and we were just,,, bewildered. you can do that? what the fuck. bodies are awesome (and very weird).

wonder if you can do that with a post-op vagina,,,, interesting thought. would assume so? hmmmmm

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Dysphoria, TV static go brrrrrrrrrrlot of tv static in my brain. idk how I want to present anymore. i could imagine how i want to see myself sort of but it's staticy now. fighting my desire to not take up space, hard

spoiler i don't know how any of this works by what means is progress measured if nobody witnesses the journey? how do i understand how i want to be without observing and mirroring? is my concept of gender supposed to not reference other people?

idk what i can do to just not be seen as a guy, because as long as people treat me like a guy, i will be wrestling against the world to be seen. i will always have to override the instinct to respond like a man and it will always take me twice as long to speak up. :::

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