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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").β€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago
[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (5 children)

In a lot of Anglo cultures/communities, which most of you are from so this won't be a surprise, wives take their husbands' last names. In queer couples, they sometimes do it sometimes one takes the other etc. Even in hetero cultures, occasionally the husband takes the wifes' last name (very rare). In Quebec and France and probably a bunch of other Franco places, it's not legal to take your spouses last name lol. Best you can do is double barrel.

I have NO attachment to my last name. It's from my dad, who was and remains an asshole. But I wanna be a good strong feminist and also not buy into this Anglo tradition 😭 At least it's not an actual problem, I am at no risk of getting married anytime soon lol but I would be tempted to take my future spouses last name just to cut off that last bit of my dad.

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (9 children)

being a social rejectKinda wish someone would just say this stuff to my face. It's like everyone else knows what my deal is and has decided to see me as an NPC. Literally they all know and just are like "interactions with you end here"

I feel like I'm more likely to explode than to ask a direct question with intent in a social setting or talk to someone who isn't already talking to me first. I feel like there are times where I just stand around hoping someone will interact with me, because I don't trust the interaction to go well if I go up to someone.

And it's not just being quirky and smol or whatever. I like don't have friends and struggle with my goals because I can't talk with confidence 😢 It blows chunks

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[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

I watched Beyond the Black Rainbow the other day, it was a good spooky slow burn horror movie. The psychic cinematographic effects were neat. The soundtrack was cool, reminded me of Carpenters movies - evil pulsing synthwave. It wasn't like a heart stopping scare ya Halloween style flick but I enjoyed it.

Also found out it was a Canadian production and a mini budget one! Only ~$1 million.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Think I'm gonna train myself to use my left hand more, used my left hand to type this so far so good

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

why the fuck am i up so early. this fucking sucks

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

My sister stole my eyeliner and I have no idea where she put it badeline-disgust

She was like "Oh, I borrowed your eyeliner today, look at how good it is!" and I was like "that's good" while thinking to myself that she took it from me and used it before I got the chance to. At least I know it's good eyeliner badeline-bruh

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

i've had these girls for like 4 months and yet i still get surprised by the fact that i have tits

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

why is there no drug that lets us grow a tail :c need

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Sanity check chat, is a parent saying "you can do a b c transition things, but I don't want you doing x y z while you live here, I'm just not comfortable with that/goes against my beliefs", abusive? Like assuming its strictly transition related. I don't know what specific things are being thought of either. Personally, I'm assuming that to mean hrt/pronouns/name/clothes?

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yes, definitely. The parent is clearly treating the child as property, doing so in a cissexist manner, and attempting to destroy the child's sense of self. However, it's super normalized.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

What goes against their beliefs and why? madeline-stare If something you need goes "against their beliefs" (cultural revolution against kkkhristianity when) then I would say yes to this question.

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 12 points 2 months ago

Cousin was making bracelets and one of them is trans colors by his own description of it. <3

[–] Beluga@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I call my dog β€œcreature” now

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[–] Beluga@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

πŸš¬πŸ€˜πŸ˜”πŸ–•πŸ₯ƒ

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (8 children)

ok hai. my name is bocchi and um it's been a while since i made a new video. so i decided that because of recent events that i could make a new videooo. and um so yeah so let's just start off by getting a couple things straight. i have friends... mm hmm! no, I know that you all think that i don't have friends, but, i do, actually. and i actually do have a band also, ahh hehehe, which is funny to me. ummmm yeah.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

I was looking at my shadow today, and it looked like I was wearing an awesome coat with a long back piece flapping in the wind, along with my jeans. Yeah, in reality it's just a sweatshirt thing that happens to have a small portion that hangs out in the back, and it does it in the front too. Now I really want a coat like that...

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)
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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (7 children)

need to find a way to use an IPL on my upper lip without blinding myself

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

As a little folkie guitarist, lemme just say that one of the only good things to come out of ukkk is their beautiful tradition of folk music.

Currently learning one of my favorite guitar medleys. It’s a really fun challenge. I love the sound of an acoustic guitar played well in alternate tunings. https://youtu.be/rSD9qg9biC4

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

more like the soy-cial soy-ences. am i right, fellow stem bros?

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