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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Egon@hexbear.net to c/the_dunk_tank@hexbear.net
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[-] Pluto@hexbear.net 8 points 6 months ago

Thanks for telling me the pronouns!

[-] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 9 points 6 months ago

ty for editing the top comment

[-] Pluto@hexbear.net 9 points 6 months ago

No problem.

I feel embarrassed getting the pronouns wrong when they're right there next to the name and I use "he" automatically sometimes.

So embarrassing and rude.

My bad, everyone.

[-] Egon@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

No worries, I had to de-masculinize my language too, once I became aware of it. It's very normal to default to "he" when no gender is assumed. It doesn't get easier when my account name is a typical masculine name (I chose it as a reference, but now my avatar is changed).
It's very nice of you to be embarrassed about it, but you don't have to be, as long as you're doing your best ♥️

[-] Pluto@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

To be honest, I do use "they" more often now (compared to a year ago) because I was told that, if you don't know the gender, just use "they."

So I'm doubly embarrassed lol

But thanks! And my mistake, of course.

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