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Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like. (www.nytimes.com)
submitted 1 year ago by dumples@kbin.social to c/mensliberation@lemmy.ca
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Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

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[–] MonsterHighStan@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You have some good points I hadn't considered before, so thank you for that. It's definitely something I'll have to think about more. It's also worth mentioning that the difference between women who couldn't find a suitable male partner vs men who couldn't find a suitable female partner also really isn't very much - "nearly half" vs "one third", which was something I also wasn't really considering when I made my comments. Ultimately it seems like a complicated issue that isn't going to be fixed with one simple solution

[–] No1RivenFucker@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 year ago

Ultimately it seems like a complicated issue that isn't going to be fixed with one simple solution

Now this I agree with wholeheartedly. My primary issue with the article is that it takes a grievance mindset rather than a problem solving one. It just reads like the women's equivalent of some incel rant, in the sense that it externalizes the issue such that it's always someone else's responsibility to do something about, which doesn't help solve anything.