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We're in the 21st century, and the vast majority of us still believe in an utterly and obviously fictional creator deity. Plenty of people, even in developed countries with decent educational systems, still believe in ghosts or magic (e.g. voodoo). And I--an atheist and a skeptic--am told I need to respect these patently false beliefs as cultural traditions.

Fuck that. They're bad cultural traditions, undeserving of respect. Child-proofing society for these intellectually stunted people doesn't help them; it is in fact a disservice to them to pretend it's okay to go through life believing these things. We should demand that people contend with reality on a factual basis by the time they reach adulthood (even earlier, if I'm being completely honest). We shouldn't be coddling people who profess beliefs that are demonstrably false, simply because their feelings might get hurt.

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[–] ClarkDoom@lemmy.world 93 points 1 year ago (7 children)

As a Taoist, I don’t believe in any deity and my beliefs boil down to letting people be who they are meant to and want to be and supporting them as much as I can in their personal journeys. That’s not an outdated or childish belief system. You’re conflating Abrahamic religions and mysticism with all religion and you don’t seem to have invested much time in understanding religion as a tool and concept outside of those areas.

Respecting people’s cultures and religion boils down to respecting people - if you believe that people shouldn’t be generally respected then your views are no more developed than that of a selfish child and you are the thing you’re complaining about.

[–] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 42 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You're technically right, but the vast majority of religious people fit OPs description and you know it. They're not talking about people like you.

[–] ClarkDoom@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I actually disagree on the majority. As someone who grew up in the Christian south I’m well aware of the misguided beliefs people can have but a majority of religious practitioners are not extremists and are much more malleable on individual topics and beliefs than many in the atheist community would care to accept - I say this as someone who considered themselves an atheist for a time but stopped when I realized religion has many benefits when used as a tool and any community, including atheists, is prone to having toxic extremism that makes the whole seem worse than it is. Take Islam for example, there are two major divisions of Islam, Sunni and Shia, and most people in the west think the extremist views of the Shia are what most Muslims believe but in all actuality they only make up about 15% of Muslims. The extremists are what get attention, not the majority of folks that use their religion and culture as a tool for living lives they think are good, beneficial or fruitful.

[–] XbSuper@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago

It's not just about being an extremist, it's about applying fairy tale logic to your very real life. I agree with OP, these people need to be shunned.

[–] ubermeisters@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

"People like them" are a greater majority than you assume, issue is we aren't vocal about it, so nobody is head counting.

Walk through life as if others are equal to you regardless of belief, and you'll be fine either way. Never hurts you to respect someone else's sanctity.

[–] awwwyissss@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Should we apply that logic to Nazi beliefs? I'm not taking sides here, but it's not so black and white.

[–] ubermeisters@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you read my comments elsewhere in the ~~thread~~ post you'll get the answer to your poorly baited question.

Next disingenuous question please

[–] twisted28@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Religious people(morons) aren’t vocal about it. Yeah sure. edit: religious people regularly try to shove their religion down everyone’s throat and create laws accordingly. Atheists wouldn’t have a problem with them otherwise. The basis of religions are to recruit new members, we know this

[–] Darthjaffacake@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] twisted28@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yet Abortion has been restricted in many states using religion as justification

[–] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just because religion has been used to justify bad things doesn't mean all religion is bad, or even that all bad things are excused by religion. The reasons people do bad things are legion.

Also, just because they use that excuse doesn't mean it's the actual reason.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Name one good thing that people could not have done without religion?

[–] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

That's a somewhat backwards question. What good has religion motivated people to do that they would not have otherwise done?

[–] Dkarma@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Not relevant.

Taoists have never been accused of cramming their beliefs down other people's throats. They are obviously not included in the discussion of religions that do do that.

Sure it's a generalization. That's the point of memes.

[–] Darthjaffacake@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This is just silly. Your group of people has never done anything bad so it's all okay is never a good argument since people are all pretty much the same (I mean it's wrong to treat people differently depending on the actions of people within the same wider group)

[–] ubermeisters@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

(I promise I'm not just being argumentative.)

Taoism does have a history of punishing free thinkers, and a lot of the structure around teaching is designed to interrupt logical thought intentionally with irrational thought.

So while they may not be responsible for the Crusades, or anything like that, I think it's a safe bet that even more pure fundamentalist religions such as Taoism, can and do still come with the inherent dark side of humanity, if not inherently, then implicitly by the fact that humans are involved.

Just as an aside... I don't necessarily have a point or a Counterpoint here, I just thought it was worth mentioning since I don't think a lot of people know a whole lot about Eastern religions.

Yes I know this is a lot of words for me to just remind people that were not nice as a race inherently.

[–] ubermeisters@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I don't see anything obvious about this mess of spaghetti logic you are calling your personal understanding and reasoning, actually. Take a step outside yourself occasionally perhaps.

All I'm seeing is someone who is less informed than they want to think, and is mad at everyone for pointing that out.

[–] twisted28@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The same could be said about yourself.

[–] kromem@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There's Taoism as philosophy and as religion.

As a philosophy you are correct, there's no need to have magical thinking.

But pretending that magical thinking is somehow only an 'Abrahamic' thing and not part of Taoism is wild, and ignores Taoist texts like A Chart of the Magic Art of Being Invisible from the Han period when the beliefs were promoted under the false promises of acquiring magical powers through commitment to its teachings.

Maybe you don't believe that cultivating a practice of physical alchemy is going to let you turn invisible or become immortal, but it wouldn't be true to say that the umbrella of Taoism doesn't include those beliefs.

The Abrahamic Sadducees in antiquity didn't believe there was life after death or that a God was watching and caring what people did or didn't do. But their existence doesn't negate the Pharisees believing that bringing animals for the priests to slaughter and eat was a cosmic exchange for committing sin. Similarly, less theistic practice of Taoism doesn't mean that the broader religion isn't filled with supernatural beliefs.

And no, I agree with OP that there's no need to respect the belief that you'll be able to turn invisible.

[–] Piecemakers3Dprints@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's a huge logical fallacy: one can respect "people' or even a person themselves without being required to respect a belief system or an individual's choice to follow its dogma. Secondly, you're jumping to a number of conclusions on your own, and come off far more judgy than a Taoist, by your definition, should be. Maybe, go touch some grass, tiger.

Lastly, try anti-theism on for size, instead. All gods are a distraction from humanity itself, and are all tools for control. Full stop.

[–] HappycamperNZ@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I think you have hit on a good point here, and an area society still needs to mature in.

For years we hated the gays, different skin colors, different cultures. We grew past it and came to the (general) agreement of "you do you" as it doesn't affect me and its not my right to dictate what you feel or who you are. Religion is a significant steeping stone as it does actually affect others and is deeply woven into society and government, but needs to be the same. Your religion is your religion, and you should be free to practice it bound by societys laws and ethics - but it should not affect those who choose the atheist path.

[–] lunaticneko@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Raised as a Buddhist, I learned that while religions might be a problem of others, whether it's also your problem is only up to you.

Also: sometimes problems are problems only if you make it so.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

As a Taoist, I don’t believe in any deity and my beliefs boil down to letting people be who they are meant to and want to be and supporting them as much as I can in their personal journeys.

If that's all your "religion" consists of, then I wouldn't categorize it as a religion. In my view, belief in supernatural processes as a requisite component of religion.

you don’t seem to have invested much time in understanding religion as a tool and concept outside of those areas.

You're wrong. I know a lot about the benefits of religion--as well as how all of those benefits can be acquired without it.

Respecting people’s cultures and religion boils down to respecting people

No, it doesn't. I can respect a person who happens to be racist without respecting their racism. Likewise, I can respect a religious person without respecting their religious beliefs.