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[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

so cis (in this instance) pertains to gender, whereas hetero is with regard to sexuality. cis/trans (what you are) vs homo/hetero (what you're attracted to)

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[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think I understand... So, a cis person can be attracted to either the same gender (homo) or the opposite gender (hetero) or both genders (bi), but attributes herself/himself to her/his birth-gender.... right? Or am I still confused? Haha

Is cis and acronym?

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<3 thank you so much!! I've never had a safe place to ask these questions before, so I've been (knowingly) going around for at least a decade with these misunderstandings. I really appreciate you and the time you're putting into helping me understand!

[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

cis I think comes from the alps or something, cis/trans-alpine. It's also used in chemistry to determine the handedness of particular isomers (I think). It's a prefix, not an acronym, in any case.
Unless you listen to TERFs (which is an acronym, 'trans-exclusionary radical feminist), who'll tell you it stands for Cis Is a Slur lol

In your example yeah you got it right, cis/trans refers to a gender signifier, whereas homo/hetero is a sexuality signifier. They're similar prefixes with different applications

And then there's me who's just... queer I guess, the more I think about it the more confused I get, be gay do crime and learn to love yourself

[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ok cool! This just made past conversations make so much more sense.

A queer pirate... Like Robert De Niro in Stardust haha (if you haven't seen that movie, I highly recommend it).

[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's not on my radar, but I'll look into it tonight, thanks!

I watched it thinking I'd hate it (not usually a fan of fantasy), but this became one of my favorite movies after only one watch.