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I hope my enby peeps can help me out here.

I am very interested in exploring a more feminine expression, but my starting point is masc-af physically, so anything too feminine too quick is going to have a very hard contrast and I'm definitely more of an "I don't want to stick out much" kind of person.

Any ideas that may be more androgynous, but not attention grabbing that I can try out? I am not good at picking outfits anyway, so I need all the help I can get.

Like beard and full body hair, so obviously lower cut stuff could be very dysmophic atm.

Maybe something that just feelsmore feminine but may not look it so much. You know? Does this make sense?

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Gods I wish my hair would grow faster! I damn near shaved it all of right before my serious questioning started, so I'm staying from almost 0

I do have the colorful toes! I neglected thinking about 5the fact that it's still summer and my apartment pool is still open, so ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

I had not thought about socks, I am interested in undies, but my thicc-ass thighs have some words on that idea. I suppose I could always double up? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

I think I'm still afraid of bringing body disphoria to light by trying more fitted cuts. ๐Ÿซค Several things I have wanted to try on private, like bralettes, but iknow immediately I'm going to see a body that doesn't match and feel something. ๐Ÿ˜“