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[–] KaRunChiy@fedia.io 235 points 22 hours ago (6 children)

Me and my fiancee both work full time to just barely survive each month with no savings because the CoL is so fucking high it's unmaintainable. And if you reply with "just move", first: I'm in the midwest, it's not AS bad out here, and second: Moving is a privilege, it's expensive, time consuming, and often times you end up in a worse spot than you were before

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 100 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Don’t worry. All that work you’re doing will pay off… your landlord’s fifth mortgage.

[–] KaRunChiy@fedia.io 57 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

In my case I'm subleasing so I'm paying off my Landlords' Landlord's fifth mortgage

[–] peregrin5@lemm.ee 21 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Landlords are parasites.

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 19 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Exactly! Same boat, I am too poor to move! Due to missed payments on mortgage, credit cards, and medical bills, our credit score is abysmal. There is no way we can get a new mortgage or pass credit checks for an apartment. On top of that I don't have the time or money to invest into the house so there are many things that need to be fixed, some of these absolutely need to before selling it so I also can't just sell either. 3rd, you're right. Wherever I do end up moving (if somehow we did get approved), it's probably going to cost more due to higher interest rates, and it will most likely cost more. We are praying to make it a few more years until stupid daycare is done so we can finally make ends meet a little...

I never thought I would be in this bad of a situation in my life, but here I am and I just want to survive each day. Thinking about money every day for years now is tiring and stressful. They have a name for it, its called poverty brain.

[–] sandwichsaregood@lemmy.world 7 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I had a basic but nice first house, but I sold it to move for a new job. I even was lucky enough to still make a bit of a profit. But not enough, and now I'm stuck back with renting again, can't really afford to buy a new house with interest rates, prices, inflation eroding my income in other areas, and poor availability. I think back to my parents buying their first house and how nice it was by comparison, for a fraction of the price even adjusted for inflation and it gives me a really unfortunate sense of perspective, much less hearing stories like yours or from friends I know who are in a bad situations. I'm not struggling, but prospects for improving things aren't great either, and that seems to be the case for everyone I know.

[–] infinitevalence 56 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

You just need to put in some extra effort or get a side hustle like we did. /S elder millennial.

[–] b3an@lemmy.world 13 points 11 hours ago

::strangles the shit out of them with their own bootstraps::

[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 1 points 20 hours ago

I had to work construction 60+ hours a week and sell drugs at the fucking mid level just to afford my 30 thousand dollar down payment on my house, and it still took me till I was 25 to do it. It was bullshit ten years ago and it’s just gotten worse since then.

[–] credo@lemmy.world 30 points 22 hours ago

I can install some pull handles on your bootstraps for a small monthly subscription fee. No, you won’t own them.