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It seems like it, since the pandemic, with "alone" meaning to an existing spouse in some cases. Although I am talking more about a shifting along the spectrum than a hard rule.
Hopefully others here will have some actual advice that may help, but in the meantime if it helps to hear a quick response then here is some meta-commentary.:-)
I think most people are just waiting for things to return to "normal". So like until a few months the people were waiting to see who would win the election - remember there were calls for a literal, bloody, violent upheaval of all society (though none of us were quite sure how seriously we needed to pay attention to those?).
And now we're past the "election" so waiting to see what happens next. Like, are you going to be okay presenting as not-... well... conservative? Should we all buy MAGA hats to wear, if doing so will save our lives, or would we rather accept whatever comes our way regardless?
Read books. Watch TV. Stay alive and safe. And yeah, find friends when you can:-). You've got the right idea I think - hobbies, maybe take a class, perhaps do an improv, just keep looking for what may work. You got this.:-) You may be alone, but that's what you share in common with us all... together? :-P