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K (189?–?) Soviet pioneer. From Kazan, Tartarstan, USSR, K was diagnosed as a ‘transvestite’ in 1937.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm making a chart for the reasons I would/wouldn't want to start HRT. Listed below are just my personal preference. Could you suggest things for the list that I missed or correct my misconceptions?

chartBenefits

  1. Softer/clearer skin

  2. Keep the hair on my head

  3. Thin out body hair

  4. Fat redistribution

  5. Emotional changes

  6. Changes in sex drive

  7. Bein a certified cutie~

Neutral

  1. Breasts (this is sometimes in benefits depending on my mood)

  2. Changes to penis function

Negatives

  1. Reduced muscle mass/strength
  2. More routines I have to follow 😴
[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

One thing i dont see mentioned is the social aspect. Some people are unable to hide the effects of feminizing hrt after a while, especially if they get a lot of titty. Idk if youre already out to everyone in your life, but this may be something to consider; there was a while where I was wearing a tight sports bra for weeks on end while visiting family or going to class and whatnot.

Also being a cutie should be number 1 not 7 💅

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

I'm out to the people who matter~

It's a good consideration, thank you

Also being a cutie should be number 1 not 7 💅

They aren't ranked owl-wink

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

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Neutral

  1. Breasts (this is sometimes in benefits depending on my mood)

  2. Changes to penis function

Breasts I wondered if I'd put in neutral or negative when considering starting HRT and yet when I look down and think "uhh... gonna have to just start wearing a hoodie to hide these soon", I'm always find a smile accompanies that, so starting to think I should I put them in the positive despite that drawbacks (tenderness during puberty, more stuff bouncing around).

Penis function is probably a bit of a YMMV, but in terms of ability to get an erection via stimulation, I've had no problems so far. Change in fluids released could be a plus or minus though.

Thinner skin is also a thing I think. Not sure how much that actually matters.

Getting cold easier is also a thing. Which I guess is a plus for me given how hot it is here?

Some people get PMS symptoms.

  1. Bein a certified cutie~ Aren't you already?
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

Breasts I wondered if I'd put in neutral or negative when considering starting HRT and yet when I look down and think "uhh... gonna have to just start wearing a hoodie to hide these soon", I'm always find a smile accompanies that

Tbh, I'm 90% sure I'll feel this way, too.

Getting cold easier is also a thing. Which I guess is a plus for me given how hot it is here?

I'm already always cold haha. Warm clothes are cuter anyway

Bein a certified cutie~ Aren't you already?

I'm a cutie but I don't have my certification kitty-cri

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That’s about right! I think this is a pretty good list. Little nuanced ones that are perhaps worth noting that the hair texture will also change on your head, and appetite as well. Many of us also on hrt report exhaustion, likely due to the body doing puberty 2.0.

The routines for me are really self love, but yes it is definitely more labor.

I’m not a medical professional, and I like to note that the effects of e are really not permanent or visible for the first month+. However, I and many other trans folk on T and E report that those emotional changes are really just something we could never go without again.

Give it a try if you’re curious! In all likelihood, you’ll know if E is for you pretty fast. I knew within 2 weeks.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm gonna try it. I'm just trying to get my mind straight and figure out what I want. Tbh, most of my dysphoria comes from my face and facial hair, and I wonder if I should be looking into FFS instead of hormones, but also I don't want to get surgery.

So, listing out the benefits of HRT helps me see what I want, and I'm trying to make sure that it's what I want instead of me just following what everyone else is doing. Usually, when I'm considering hormones, I'm having a fit of dysphoria and anxiety, and I'm not really thinking clearly. But at the moment, I'm feeling very stable, so I want to have a sober look at it.

Tbh, I'm more scared that I'll try it and not like it, so that's probably indicative of how I feel about it.

Thank you~

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It’s gonna rule when you get on them! Even if it is isn’t for you, then you know

And I just got FFS a month ago, so hit me you ever want to talk about it. trans-heart

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

Sure!

I'll DM you sometime. I love collecting info lol