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this post was submitted on 05 Oct 2024
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I was making fun of this entire concept. If talking in public is allowed, it implies that everyone is comfortable with a person emitting a certain amount of noise. What form that noise takes is idiotic to divvy up and bitch about.
Explain to me how if you're annoyed by music playing, why is that any more valid than someone else being mad at talking? Or someone else for whistling? Singing? Phone ringing? Vibrating? Where are your arbitrary lines?
You can't be serious. Or you don't spend a lot of time in public.
Most people's conversations in public are fairly quiet. People often do get annoyed of people are having a screaming or otherwise disruptive conversation on the subway. Most humans don't find a quiet conversation that distracting though. Hearing half a conversation annoys most people- I think it's because the brain keeps trying to figure out what's happening.
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/hearing-just-one-half-of-a-conversation-is-really-really-annoying-2657804/
It's not really """arbitrary lines""". The shared theme is "don't distract other people in public". Whistling fails this check. So does singing. As does a phone alarm going off. But also like most things that annoy or tolerate are arbitrary.
This is especially true if you need to hear announcements like what stop this is or that this train is going express.
Anyway, my current thinking is you're doing some sort of "bit" as a selfish child, or you just don't spend a lot of time in public.