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[–] bamfic@lemmy.world 17 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Shrug is the only correct response at work. Or maybe "that's nice" to be more polite.

[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 months ago

Or "noted" or just "ok"

[–] krashmo@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Is that polite though? I get that it isn't explicitly rude but I pretty much only use that phrase as short hand for "why are you talking about this you fucking weirdo?" I think it's subtly rude at best.

[–] BallsandBayonets@lemmings.world 18 points 3 months ago

Most politeness is about rephrasing rudeness in a subtle way. What OP's fictional coworker did in this fictional story is explicitly rude as it assumes the worst from meeting a new person, the most appropriate response would be something that is subtly, but noticeably, rude.

[–] mriormro@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

If a team lead, sight unseen, just tells you their sexual preference without any context or follow-up then yeah that's fucking weird and they're a weirdo.

[–] krashmo@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Yeah definitely, just saying I'm not sure polite is the right label for a response with that kind of subtext.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 4 points 2 months ago

You need to say it slowly. "Okaaaay"

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