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In this case, I'm referring to the notion that we all make minor sacrifices in our daily interactions in service of a "greater good" for everyone.

"Following the rules" would be a simplified version of what I'm talking about, I suppose. But also keeping an awareness/attitude about "How will my choices affect the people around me in this moment? "Common courtesy", "situational awareness", etc...

I don't know that it's a "new" phenomenon by any means, I just seem to have an increasing (subjective) awareness of it's decline of late.

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[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 29 points 1 year ago (3 children)

As an American: "How will my choices affect the people around me in this moment?" Is almost comical to see.

Most ~~assholes~~ of my fellow Americans think "That nosey sonofabitch needs to get out of my way! I want to light fireworks off at 4am how dare he say I shouldn't! FREEDUMB!"

I used to live behind a gas station. 3am and almost every shithead going get gas had their subwoofers set to "shatter windows a mile away"

[–] tiredOfFascists@reddthat.com 16 points 1 year ago

Yeah I feel you. Americans think that they're allowed to park their dodge ram on a sidewalk because it feels "unsafe" to park on a suburban street 20 feet away. God forbid their chance of being sideswiped is non-zero, because who cares about pedestrians or disabled folks.

I say this as an American. A lot of us are bonkers-selfish.

[–] solstice@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

Personal liberty is so misunderstood and abused in this country. This is a fantastic post. I think everyone needs to refresh their understanding of personal responsibility within this system we've arranged for ourselves. Radical freedumb only works for so long.

[–] Kiosade@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Those fuckers that blast music out their windows are a scourge to society. Seriously, fuck them!

[–] DaveFuckinMorgan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What genre of music do you find is most commonly blasted out of windows?

[–] Kiosade@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I’ll tell you what I haven’t heard: Brandenburg Concerto #3, or any other Classical music for that matter! No, it’s always something grating, angry, and awful to listen to.