teruma

joined 1 year ago
[–] teruma@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Therapy and/or an ADHD diagnosis (not joking, one symptom of neuroatypical people is the inability to identify emotions in themselves (like me lol)).

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (8 children)

That's why it's so important to specify that men are victims of patriarchy, not victims of men. Everyone, regardless of gender, has an environmental tendency to reinforce the societal structure that we label "Patriarchy", as you say (and I/many agree), but there's far more to it than the idea of "men first women second". The idea behind the phrase is not "everyone vs. men" but rather "everyone vs. harmful but deeply engrained social construct".

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Protein shake additives are what helped me add variety. Tea/matcha/coffee, chocolate, yoghurt, or even just a pinch of salt. I never had the opportunity to try but I bet freezedried fruits would be tasty to add, too!

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Chicken isn't vegan?

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm in lesbians with you.

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 73 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Women need better icons.

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

guess what I was born in the 90's and was 8... in the 90's!

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

no its ok c she's 1000 yr old spirit trapped in a child's body its totally different 🤢

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

My spouse is also a mega-powerhouse in our relationship. She's excellent and picks up chores when I ask or need healthcare. I have health issues, and she attends appointments and procedures, and does extensive post procedure caretaking. My income is the primary income, while she does environmental preservation work that she's crazy passionate about (which does bring in an income, she's not working for free). No kids, but two cats. Our home is always a work in progress, but there's one or two spaces I'd consider amateur magazine worthy, the kitchen and the loft. Sex is divine and of a frequency we both prefer, which is less than the stereotypical average. We are both happy and fulfilled, aside from the expected stress that comes from American politics. Together 13 years.

[–] teruma@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

My favorite way to order from indian places is "not spicy for child" because otherwise mild is too spicy for me. 🙃

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