servermonky

joined 1 year ago
[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 2 points 7 months ago

Yes, but state costs like $20 or something instead of free

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 2 points 11 months ago

Sure, for school age kids like my daughter that is true, but I will push back that toddler and infant childcare is, on average, extremely expensive.

If you don't have a grandparent or other relative to watch your kid, in a state like North Carolina you will be forking out around $800-900 a month per kid on average.

Which is why publicly funded options for preschool would be life-changing for so many people, especially single mothers and fathers.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

My family is very similar. We aren't quite paycheck to paycheck, but things feel a lot tighter than they did before - we make 190 ish combined, which ends up being about 9k a month. We have one paid off car.

Mortgage - $2500 Utilities - $800 (electric, water, plain Internet and mnvo cell phone plan) Daughter's school - $1200/mo (obv this is a "non essential", but it's pretty cheap for a year round private school) Prescriptions - $1200/mo with insurance (although this usually comes in a single lump in January. Insurance also refuses to cover a few essentials which we pay out of pocket for, about $100/mo) Student loans - $800/mo

Which leaves us with around $2500/mo for entertainment, car/house repair (it's 40 years old and needs new things like a roof or hot water heater from time to time), groceries, any vacations, etc. My wife and I both have chronic conditions which are exhausting to deal with so we get house cleaning for $300/mo as well.

We are doing fine, but it seems like an exhausting cycle to try and build savings, and if we ever had to buy another car I don't know how we would swing an extra $500 payment every month, with what it seems vehicles cost these days.

All this to say, while we are ok, I have no idea how families making under 100k get by.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 40 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Rimworld is probably the closest thing to that right now. Watch your village starve as their clothes wear out and they get frostbite.

Or dwarf fortress if you want to get medieval

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately this new font family still struggles with the l1 issue,in all but the last two typefaces. There's a lot of good ideas here, and the Krypton version isn't too bad, but I still struggle to see why they haven't figured out that gaping issue on most of the styles here.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

A someone running a proxmox cluster on my gaming PCs, why not just use all of the above? Hell, I still have an XP VM on there somewhere for some particularly grouchy games.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

Everyone knows every other version of windows is shit.

My Win 10 is working fine on proxmox for the few games that require windows.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago

I take guaifenisn to combat dry sinuses, and it's helpful there for me. But I'm not sure I've seen a difference in on-label use.

Unfortunately I deal with frequent nosebleeds and sinus headaches from dryness, and there aren't a lot of options that work well for me

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think a lot of it shook out of the hippie movement, where some people were just self serving narcissists that wanted to do drugs, have sex, and didn't want fight in a war. Then when they got families and jobs they didn't want government "stealing" their money to help other people, and so they "became" conservatives.

So they just assume narcissistic motivation applies to everyone.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's not really luxury though - the orders are often wrong, the food is cold, and it is one of the slowest ways of getting food to eat.

[–] servermonky@lemmy.today 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get that boycotts don't work, but who the fuck is still paying double/triple instead of picking it up themselves on their way home or just driving out to get it - I haven't ordered third party delivery since the pandemic since there's no way I can justify the stupid high cost.

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