I agree with the comments saying to talk to her about it. One thing about trans people is that we are people and you can talk to us like people, lol.
Just imagine she's cis if you need to, and wanting these things. She wants care and treatment to be the self she wants to be. How do you handle it?
To be honest, I think you're doing a great job so far. If you're worried about it... Just talk to her. 💖
This scene was from An Extremely Goofy Movie, released on 2000.
But the point does stand...