[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

I really want to watch it but it left theaters here after like a two-week run.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago

it's worth noting that CFA stopped donating to queerphobic organizations awhile back, has a DEI department now, and is one of the few fast food chains not on the BDS boycott list for Palestine. like I get that hating on 'em is a meme but they have good fries and are less problematic than half the other fast food chains at this point...

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Yeah, I really do not envy OP her Christianity; I'm so glad I was mostly over that phase of my life by the time I started examining my gender and realizing I wasn't just depressed, but dysphoric.

EDIT: To clarify, absolutely not saying Christianity (or any religion) is "just a phase" for everyone. Just that it certainly was for me, and I'm happy to be past it and to have partially dealt with the trauma from it.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 months ago

FYI: this is not true of PPTV (peritoneal pull-through vaginoplasty), which seems to be one of the better vaginoplasty techniques currently, as it's less finicky than the type of vaginoplasty that uses penis skin.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago

It certainly is in some ways; can’t get through a given week without questioning whether maybe I’m just cis and want to be unique or a binary trans woman in denial. But on the other hand, I do have my feeling of simply not fitting into the gender binary to fall back on, which is there even when gender dysphoria and euphoria are not.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 7 months ago

As somebody transfeminine and nonbinary, this really spoke to me. I think part of why it took me so long to figure out I’m trans is that I don’t want to be super femme 90%+ of the time, I just want to throw on jeans and a tee and not be read as male. Like I’m nonbinary, but I want to present as a tomboy or as close to nonbinary on a female base form as I can get, if that makes sense?

Anyways the article was excellent and I’m glad I read it.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 7 months ago

Big recommend to just jump straight to OrcaSlicer. It has Bambu Studio's much-improved-over-PrusaSlicer UI but with features ported in from PrusaSlicer and SuperSlicer and compatibility with non-Bambu printers.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Another OrcaSlicer user here. Started off with PrusaSlicer and switched over at a friend's recommendation, and honestly am so glad I did (it has a much nicer UI and some really neat features ported over from SuperSlicer).

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

These look great! Can we get a link to the design, please?

EDIT: nvm, found it!

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 10 months ago

When I ask about my gender on StackExchange, people tell me to just use Arch, but I don't think I'm fully a trans woman?

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago

I just wish it didn’t take so much longer to print than adaptive cubic at the same infill percent.

[-] lapis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 1 year ago

The hint in this case is "God bless you"

That's actually the abuse showing through. It's intentional passive aggression and a manipulative speech pattern. It's meant to imply, "God bless you, even though you're breaking his rules and making him sad and probably going to hell".

And before you ask, I was raised evangelical, was deeply involved in ministry, went to bible school, and even worked at a church for a few years; I know how these people think because I was one until I saw the light and ditched their religion. The number of times I've seen "I'll pray for you/them", "God bless you/them", and such used as insults is too damn high.

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