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I mean Fallout was fucking great imo, but definitely an exception to that rule
I'm lazy as fuck
based. I spent a lot of time at a local zen center for a few years, I got derailed when I was sick for a long time but I'd like to get back to it someday. o7, maybe you'll be a cool old monk someday once your kids are doing their own things
that sounds fucking rad tbh
shinji get in the law exam
how many did you put in your mouth at once
jork it (my peanits)
in all seriousness theres been queer strip club nights popping up in my city which sounds kinda fun if everyones being chill and respectful
sounds great, too many organizing efforts are ruined by people smashing and then causing drama with one another tbh especially when folks are young
galen weston is first to the wall
what if my misfits shirt is really thin and makes my tits look good
thats a pretty nice tunnel
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Why do I keep getting physically assaulted
(hexbear.net)
Seriously, this shit doesnt happen to any of my other trans fem friends who generally present a lot more fem than me.
In the last 3 months I've had 3 instances of me minding my own business (riding transit / smoking outside a concert venue) and some fucker will just come up and start shit.
The other night someone came up to me and started yelling like a Fox News reporter like "ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN, ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN, DONT YOU PEOPLE GO IN SCHOOLS AND [REDACTED HORRIBLE THINGS TO KIDS]
I don't fucking get it, because I generally present pretty "butch" and at a base level don't really look like someone you'd want to fight. I'm not saying I'm a big tough badass, but out of all my trans friends I definitely look like the most likely to whoop your ass. And also when I've been swung on, I've won all the fights, but not in a cool way where I feel good...I just wish I was never in that situation to begin with 
Another thing that fucks me up is it's great that I can defend myself - but if it wasn't me, and it was someone smaller or more passive, how far would it have gone? Would one of my sisters have been curbstomped? I fucking hate that so much.
A few theories posited by my friends
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Beating up someone in a dress / dressed fem isnt really badass no matter what so it happens less (but obviously still happens). So maybe presenting more butch makes you more "fightable"?
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I simply go out more; I take transit 3-4x a day, I travel up and down my city every day, on weekends I'll generally have a big night out at least once
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I'm androgynous in a weird way where people don't really understand what I'm going for (most of my trans friends are very binary presenting) and it's threatening / confusing / provokes harassment
I honestly don't fucking get it. I'm sure there isn't a magic answer. Just venting I guess.
tl;dr im hot and strong, people dont like it
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jwsmrz
joined 4 years ago
dont jork your peanits