constantokra

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[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 1 points 3 months ago

Drawled Lucius Malfloy. I know at least half of you read it in that voice too.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 4 points 3 months ago

It's so frustrating too because the atmosphere, casting, acting, even the characters are really compelling. But they just absolutely refused to take any risks. It's like they just didn't get the whole point. Rey needed to become a gray character, and kylo needed to be redeemed. And they both had to live with it and shoulders the burdens of their past. Luke needed to accept that ultimately people are people and you can't expect to entirely subvert either your baser or more noble emotions and instincts.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 2 points 3 months ago

I really like purelymail. I've had no problems, their billing is super simple and really cheap. The security options are nice and it doesn't want to sell me a VPN or share my files or any crap like that.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Hairstyle is a big part of most people's identity, and a disease, or anyway it's treatment, strips it away. People shave because their hair falls out like their body is just giving up. With the hair goes the ability to keep your sickness private. Everyone you know, and most people you come into contact with will know you're going through something big, and they will treat you differently. You're not you anymore. You're sick. Friends or family might try to show you it's not such a big deal by shaving their own heads, but strangers won't do that.

Let's contrast that with trump. His body isn't failing anymore than it already was. This doesn't strip him of his identity. If anything it solidifies it. This doesn't change the way people interact with him. This doesn't divulge any information about him that wasn't already public, by his own choice. Given his obvious insecurities, we would know if his ears were one of them and they are not. These people have no personal relationship with him. This isn't about making him feel better. It's about these people's own identity and demonstrating group solidarity.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 2 points 4 months ago

Sometimes fridge doors sag because the bushings on the hinges break or deteriorate. I've fixed them before by adding washers in place of the bushings, or cutting a new bushing out of a hard plastic cutting board.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

They're less lethal, not non lethal, and they're frequently used as an excuse to escalate violence needlessly. I'm very critical of the use of their use of force and would generally prefer police to be unarmed, but this is not a situation where I have any complaints. That threat needed to be neutralized as quickly and effectively as possible. Overwhelming force was the best way to do that.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 20 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Most of us thought similar things about the Capitol. Then January 6th happened. Now, not so much.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 4 points 4 months ago

I have anxiety as well. I'm not saying that your problem is the same as kine, but I'm going to tell you what happens to me so that maybe it'll make you worry a little less. I generally have a very slight ringing in my ears. Most people probably wouldn't notice it but I'm autistic so I do. If I have to increase my dose of antihistamines for my allergies, I will have a noticeable increase and qualitative change in the ringing. If I am overly stressed and my anxiety level is higher than usual, I'll have more ringing. If I get less sleep than I need I will have an increased ringing. It's not always the same in both ears either.

I'm not telling you it's nothing but stress. That would be irresponsible. I am telling you I get the same symptoms and it's nothing but stress and usually resolves in a few days once I get myself under control.

On another note, I would really recommend doing something about your anxiety. Brief high intensity exercise works well, if you can handle it. Guided meditation works well too, even if you hate the whole idea of it (like I do). The best overall remedy is probably to get adequate, good quality sleep, but I know how hard that can be. The easiest immediate relief is blood pressure medicine, if that is an option for you. For instance, if you lay down to rest you should not be able to hear your heart beat. If you can, your blood pressure is too high and you should get it dealt with, because it will absolutely make your anxiety substantially more manageable. Whether or not the anxiety is the problem with your hearing, dealing with it will improve your life, and from one person with anxiety to another: friend, it's obvious from your post you need some help with this.

For the time being, if you need a short relief from the ringing, I've found that certain types of computer generated noise played through headphones will stop my ringing, at least for a few minutes. You might want to try that, just be careful not to play it too loud.

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 2 points 4 months ago

If I had a fan that did that I'd open it up and clip off the Bluetooth antenna.

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