RBWellsV23

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[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 5 hours ago

If I'm thinking, something is wrong. Just feeling, not thinking.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 23 hours ago

It's good if the guy is hung big, downward curve, and really hard. I know, very specific requirements. But when all that happens, it's a really intense angle but can control it, if that makes sense. From kneeling, I can't do the squatting thing.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah and DP, that is kinda awkward but feels really good, the best arrangement I found for that is smaller guy in ass with me leaning back, bigger guy more active, in pussy. Toys do not accomplish that feeling, the two guys.

One in mouth one in pussy is good but sort of dangerous for the one I am blowing, the only thing I've really ever been good at in bed is letting go, I get afraid I might bite down if I cum and that holds me back a little and so not my favorite part.

I miss that stuff and know my husband does too but I had an HPV run in and it takes a long time to clear when you are old (we are lucky it even did) and guys my age are not vaccinated for that, and condoms do not stop it so really now I am out of the fun.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 day ago

No, the pulsing is what I feel when I feel it.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 days ago

Maybe what we want is to not have to tell you what we want, lol. But yeah it takes some of the pleasure out of it if the guy isn't paying enough attention to know, I guess. Like it's a skill and a valuable one.

It's not actually a straight male/female split - I notice that my husband will ask for things and is really just asking, yes or no is ok; I tend not to ask unless I actually need something. I do think his way is more reasonable but I can anticipate for him and would consider him smarter if he could do that too, if that makes sense.

Are you good at giving gifts? It's a similar skill IMO, the paying attention.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I don't enjoy straight swap (why fuck someone else, when the guy I have is so good?) but like MFM- both having and watching so if we could each take turns with both guys, maybe.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It depends. If we cum at the same time, no. If I am clear minded enough to pay attention, yes.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 5 days ago

Yes.

Quick in the morning, but in the evening after even a couple of beers, so much endurance I tap out. Which is sort of bad as I find it so much easier to get off (and again, and again) in the afternoon or evening, but then get so tired, oof.

If he wants to go a long time he says Viagra and some drinks. I guess that is both relaxed and propped up. I asked about intensity but he says always about the same.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 6 days ago

A little worse for oral, just less familiar with it, a little better for PIV, more slip less friction. Marginal difference but slight advantage team intact.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 6 days ago

Sort of the opposite. I have finished him that way when it's gone on long enough I'm sure I am not going to cum anymore, but otherwise no, if short on time would rather do something we both get something out of. So our quickies are PIV - occasionally I don't get off if it is really quick but in that case (since it doesn't happen often) the frustration usually makes the next time better.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

30 or 32d or dd I would guess. They fit the rest of you, so proportionate size is another way to put it.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

We have sex at least once a day, every day since we got together. Once you start you may not want to stop, it's great.

I want to modify no shave November and stop plucking my legs so they can heal - it was my workaround to stop other crappy anxious habits.

I think it's good to do oddball fast, always do a Dry July, no drinking, and a no Amazon August, no online buying of anything. It's kind of impossible to do either once the holiday season starts, so good to sort of reset. Would never fast from sex though, not voluntarily.

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