yes, the golden age of "dating apps" is long over. They are monetized to hell and back now. Most of the profiles are bots or scammers. The "real" ones are typically not great people. I'm not sure what your disability entails, but public spaces are where you will find genuine people.
If you absolutely insist on using dating apps, try Hinge.
Hey comrade-
Just seeing this now, sorry - life gets fast.
Still willing to talk about anything that might help you orient yourself for employment, etc.
If you can hit me with a quick (op-sec friendly, use DM) bio about yourself and your experience level along with some pointed questions about what you are struggling with now I will respond with advice on how to proceed.
I have not contemplated how vegan friendly they are, tbh. Sorry for the oversight. From my experience I'm confident that a vegetarian would be alright; for full veganism I'd encourage you to reach out to their contact #.
It's not utopia but it is uniquely different from selling individual labor-power on a market.
We can talk about whatever you want. I specialize in IT but I can talk compsci a bit; I was going down that road for a minute - would love to save you some misery where I can.
It's relative to you, I'm afraid. I felt like I "missed the boat" when I enrolled at 30, but I will tell you straight that there were people from 20-60 enrolling in the program.
It's just due to the seniority aspect that I mention "the younger the better".
But, if you need work and are willing to do it - no matter the age, I'd enroll.
Typical union style seniority pay (some exceptions, like if you can get security clearance you will get higher paying contracts, etc)
You can go into:
-Navigation (deck-hand to captain)
-Stewards (kitchen to chef to quartermaster)
-Engine (Jr Engineer to Sr Engineer); the initial apprenticeship program rotates you through all three
As the union is predicated on keeping sailing jobs occupied by US sailors you do have to swear an oath of loyalty to the US - but i mean it's just words really. The training programs also have some quasi-military style structure. You kind of start off in a boot-camp scenario but it's mostly to weed people out.
The only real catch is double-edged: You will be away from family and friends for long periods of time; so great if you don't really care for your family and don't have super close IRL friends. While you are in the training program and while you are at sea you have no expenses - this is why you only have to worry about rent for part of the year while you aren't working contracts. So, if I were doing the program I'd be looking for a situation where I either live family while I'm not at sea or find a person will to rent to me month-to-month. Paying rent for a residence you aren't living in for the majority of the year would be silly unless you are like the head of a family that at least gets to use it while you are away or something.
https://www.seafarers.org/training-and-careers/jobs/entry-program/
It's a bit of a rugged life-style but some people like that. Makes you feel alive and all. For the women comrades FYI: about 25% of the people enrolled while I was there were women and they seemed to be treated very well by staff and other people enlisted in the program. Felt very safe for everyone and everyone was pretty cool/chill (except the Commandant, he was cool but definitely not chill lol).
While the lifestyle is a bit rugged, the food is fucking amazing - no joke. People at sea eat like kings (for free apparently).
One of the cool things is that they have political education classes where they give you some union history (watered down, they aren't revolutionaries) and teach the power of unions to their members. Self-serving sure, but it is literally the only time I've seen institutionalized political education in action in the US, was pretty wild.
Honestly I'd recommend it to anyone who is:
-Is young and directionless
-Wants to be in a unionized sector
-Loves the open sea / wants to travel in a non-tourist way
-Is economically vulnerable
Don't apply if any of these describe you though:
-Unwilling to work on your drug habits/addictions
-Unwilling to work on your fitness/health generally
-Unwilling to tolerate any forms of authority/discipline
-Unwilling to to complete a 3 month training program where you live expense-free but have no income and are essentially chaperoned.
FYI, though: they will not tolerate drugs or alcohol while in their training program and if you get caught inebriated while working a contract they will come down hard on you (they have a rehab clinic they'd force you to attend).
But for real, if you are someone who just cannot find any economic traction and are living a meek existence - please apply for this program - you'll actually get to start living your life.
Of course if you don't like the sea/ocean then probably not for you.
Before anyone asks why I left the program, it was because of family shit - turns out mine falls apart without me around.
If any one does go through with an application my advise is to convince them why the program suits your particular life. Just like most jobs they are going to turn away applicants who seem to be applying on a whim who they might have a bad ROI on.
My three step plan for you:
Optional fourth step:
Yes, Your Grace.
The name made me fearful that this game would be cringe. However, the trailer assured me that it would be awesome. It's very story-driven, and while the narrative is pretty set on rails/linear you do have "importance" of choices when it comes to resource management.
The game has a lot of great humor and music throughout. It even will K.O. punch you right in the feels.
The game also "respects your time" which is great these days...
It’s the failure of the Soviet education system. If we can characterize the Soviet people, it is that they are far too naive.
Eh. They were in a bad spot economically due to Saudi market manipulation at the behest of the west, a military defeat in Afghanistan, a space-race posturing/propaganda. They definitely could have held out longer but they were on the back-foot and were opting for a peaceful/graceful loss rather than forcing a military loss. This worked for the West also as they didn't want to involve their direct military which is why they extended a "peaceful" option for ending the cold war. The icing on the cake was Gorbachev was an intelligence asset (someone linked evidence for this here once, I lost the bookmark apparently; if he wasn't then he was the only truly naive Soviet citizen).
It is so patently oligarchic. Sucks that it seems like the election winners will be denied power ultimately but moments like this are a rare, great example of when participation in bourgeoise politics is a good tactic; this will make the French painfully aware of how farcical and hollow their flavor of "democracy" is and will radicalize any prole who is even partially paying attention.
Seems like very short-term thinking on Macron's part - but given the current geopolitical stage we're existing within he may realize that the mask is going to fall off regardless, there are precious few rationales to keep masquerading as an acolyte of democracy.
Would love to hear what the political climate is like in-person from a French comrade.