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I'm not saying I'm definitely right. And sure, the libs deserve the dunking. I look back to when I was a lib and I cringe at the shit I used to say. I'm certainly not thinking "oh why were they mean to me when I said something totally sexist", and honestly fuck anyone that puts their short term feelings above the oppression of a marginalised group.

That said, I think that some Hexbear peeps might be enjoying the now long-lost experience of dunking on libs. I get it, it's fine, I would too. I'm just wondering if we can tone down the insults and PPB, especially in other instances. I would really stick to informed discussion if possible. I'm not reading comments in too much detail, so maybe I'm wrong. I'm seeing a lot of people here put in a ton of genuine effort, and those posters get a order-of-lenin from me.

I have seen Lemmygrad posters complain (nicely) about the level of PPB and shitposting in non shitposting communities. Frankly I think the deserve a bit of respect in their communities. Their culture isn't the same as ours. I love you guys, but PPB is really only funny in Hexbear.

I sorta feel like a mass defederation is just a matter of time regardless of what we do. Maybe I'm just being hopeful that we can make this thing work. Dunno, you don't have to fully agree with me. But for me personally, I would post a lot more carefully with non Hexbear users.

Edit: let me reiterate that the libs do deserve the dunking

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[–] Owl@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah, I think people are a little hair trigger on the bullying. Personally I think the best way to do it is to give them one layer of helpful explanations, and see if they reply in bad faith.

Lib shit

Actually that's racist/propaganda/etc and here's why

You're a CCP bot

Hog out or log out, PPB, etc

[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

Ya I wouldn't kill yourself with being nice if they're obviously not taking the discussion seriously.

[–] SerLava@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I like this- PPB is only for people who are either obviously reactionary shills from the first comment, or people who refuse to back down from reactionary shit when confronted.

I do think if someone posts liberal drivel it's fine to post a few of these the-democrat liberalism neera

[–] Zuzak@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

If they come here, go Mad Max on 'em.

If you go there, be on good behavior (unless they are very obviously a chud, screeching about "woke" and stuff)

When you post PPB in another instance, it's not just the person you're replying to who will see it, and the rest of them aren't desensitized to it. Be selective about when you drop a tactical PPB.

Edit: OK I said this and then 20 mins later posted PPB on another instance BUT I his it behind a link AND the user was asking for a list of instances that, "tolerate basic slurs"

[–] TheLepidopterists@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

I didn't want to blow the link's cover so I'll say it here: excellent ppb in that thread

[–] Flyberius@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

I just did a PPB in another thread because some lib got upset at all the replies to the question of "what historical scams went unnoticed for too long". It felt justified considering the replies were things like "Obama, capitalism, bitcoin, bernie madoff" and that was what was making this one user upset.

My first ever PPB too.

[–] GnastyGnuts@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

I will behave as I did on the old sub: I will be as nice as they are, as mean as they are, as thoughtful as they are, or as dumb as they are.

[–] BelieveRevolt@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

Depends, if they're doing the whole "You're a tankie Chinese bot!" thing or the tired "Vuvuzela gorillion dead no iPhone!" shit, I'll reply however I want.

[–] Abraxiel@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I also think a lot of the dunking has sucked. I get everyone's hard for the opportunity, but there's been some pretty weak shit. A lot of jumping the gun before someone has even made themselves look bad and acting like they're super owned.

[–] temptest@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Gotta agree. There are even some people I've seen trying to make fights over posts that actually didn't say anything wrong. And lemmygrad had the same problem before the Reddit Influx.

[–] Abraxiel@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

Also when there are like two people who come into a thread and a hundred posts laughing at them and congratulating ourselves, it doesn't actually look that cool.

[–] HornyOnMain@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, I feel like doing it in other instances is a bit much

When they come onto our turf and start lib posting though, then the PIGPOOPBALLS comes out in full force

[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The chud fantasy of shooting an intruder, except with a picture of a pig pooping on its own balls.

feral-hog Stand Ur Ground!!

[–] abc@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

frankly i think all these posts about dunking need to be banned. i am neither pro or anti dunking i am just tired of y'all posting about dunking. screenshots should be kept to the dunk tank. these kinds of posts - whether they are 'haha come bark at this dumb liberal' or 'please stop immediately barking at the liberals' are both annoying.

let me find the people to dunk on organically please i treat hexbear as a roleplaying sim with a complex NPC reaction system

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No, let the wave of pig poop crest and fall upon their beaches

[–] Nightcastle@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

Tone police are cops

[–] daisy@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

My approach in the broader federation is going to be this:

  1. Freely and viciously dunk on public figures. "Joe Biden's brain is pudding, and that evil asshole has no fucking business deciding what to have for dinner, let alone holding the highest office on the planet, and I'll celebrate his eventual death from natural causes with a month-long party."

  2. Educate posters with facts. Be as civil as is reasonable, but don't fetishize civility. "Your respect for Joe Biden is a mistake, and here's why."

  3. If the poster is 100% confirmed to be a public figure, see #1. "Joe Biden, I hope you spend your final years in untreatable pain."

[–] mazdak@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

There has always been this kind of divide in the nature of hexbear, the extent to which it is either a safe-space for leftists or a place to try and attract and deprogram liberals

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

Don’t be needlessly cruel but don’t be “civil” for the mere sake of it. Many people on the internet are marginalized IRL (disproportionately true for spaces like Hexbear which are accepting of gender nonconformity and communism) and it can feel good to turn it on others when we’re all just usernames shouting into the void. Be the better person, always assume you are speaking to a relative, your past self, or future friend/comrade and not a mortal enemy.

[–] Sasuke@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

there's a reason the old sub became as big as it did

[–] VILenin@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

This time they'll give us credit for being nice!

[–] SnAgCu@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

I agree, I think at least sometimes Libs can have little a civility, as a treat. If you can, argue in good faith until that's not an option.

Personally I also think responding to frothing libs accusing everything that moves of being a chinese bot by just being a normal ass person is pretty funny, I like it

[–] Zyansheep@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Soc dem classical liberal here (i think). I am so confused, can someone explain why I deserve to be "dunked"?

[–] HumanBehaviorByBjork@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

becaues we are ravenous beasts weakened by our years in neglectful captivity

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[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (9 children)

I guess it's because of all the suffering that Western imperialism has caused the world. If one assumes that Western power structures are inherently fair and ok, that person is washing the crimes of the West by just a little bit. If one assumes that capitalism works and is somehow fair, one neglects all the overseas exploitation that makes it happen.

If you're a socdem lib, you're still to the left of my early days, so me personally, I'm not gonna treat you like a demon.

I think the other answer is that a lot of us see a lot of genuine bullshit irl, and "dunking on a lib" is a small way to vent about all the unfair shit we're exposed to. I'm sorry if it's stressful in the short term, but try to remember that people are really hurting right now. I've definitely been dunked on by a marginalised person before, I've even been wrong. But I try to take the grown-up road and realise my privilege.

Edit, I forgot to add that liberals are complete dicks to us online when they are in the majority, like on Reddit.

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[–] a_blanqui_slate@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Hot take, PPB wasn't funny on /r/chapotraphouse and it's never going to be funny.

It has given rise to some funny reactions, but to say PPB is funny because someone freaks out at it is a tail wags dog sorta thing.

[–] Zuzak@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

PPB is supposed to be funny??

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[–] Shinji_Ikari@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah I think maintaining federation as long as possible to get as many stray libs into our zone as possible is a good thing.

[–] radiofreeval@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fiiiine, I'll tone down the ppb

Unless they do some fash shit, then i'm opening fire

Might be worth noting here at least from Mastodon it requires the effort of going over to Hexbear to see the PPB so it's possible whoever you are dunking on will not get to experience its majesty in any case

Sorry

[–] judgeholden@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think this is gonna be relevant for too long, they're all going to defederate from us anyway because we're evil putler xi bots or whatever

[–] Mindfury@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

we gonna let it ride

[–] NoGodsNoMasters@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like to think I try to engage in mostly good faith (I don't necessarily think a bit of irony that contains a legitimate point being made is bad) until they show that they're not doing so at which I don't see much reason to continue trying

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[–] TreadOnMe@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Look, I've kept my stuff to our instance. I'm doing my part! TM

[–] ZoomeristLeninist@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

yeah, dunking and PPB is for bad faith ppl who come to HB. be informative and communicate clearly on other instances. the only reason i can see for federating w these lib instances is to educate and agitate (not agitate them personally, but agitate them against capitalism). we cant do that if we get defederated within a week of interacting w them. also maybe dont joke abt conducting ddos attacks. some lemmy.world users took that and ran w it to denounce us further. be earnest and understand not everyone has had the same exposure to socialist education as us

[–] Finger@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

no more half measures walter

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