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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by SapphicFemme@beehaw.org to c/support@beehaw.org

Wasn't it established this type of behavior isn't acceptable towards lgbt people? Dismissing their hurt caused by others and clearly gas lighting them?

The replies to this comnent are disheartening https://beehaw.org/comment/314559

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[-] Gaywallet@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We don't always remove content. Sometimes we merely step in and ask people to calm down. Some stuff we leave up because the community pushes back strongly to the message and it's useful for others to see it. We're not trying to sanitize conversations, but provide some guiding principles and spirit and let the community self regulate.

[-] SapphicFemme@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago

It only really encourages it to show no punishment for clearly abusive actions though. It says in the rules of the community that stuff like that is clearly not tolerated

[-] Gaywallet@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There's a difference between not tolerating behavior and from sweeping behavior under the rug. A public show of pushing back is useful to demonstrate what we stand for.

[-] StewieTheThird@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago

Yeah adding to this if you just removed every post (like some subreddits) then no one knows what was removed and why. Sure with lemmys mod log you could deep dive in to find the reason (if given) but publicly saying “calm down not welcome behavior” can be a useful tool to reinforce to everyone where the administrators stand. It also provides a transparency to everyone else to also allow us to keep our admins in check. Well as far as we can given we don’t own the instance as users.

[-] Penguincoder@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

If we removed everything we disagreed with, that would be an echo chamber of specific opinion. Not ideal and not wanted. Having a discussion about disagreements is more apt to change someone's view versus just removing it entirely.

[-] Saintzillla@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago

Yup. Doesn't help to hide this stuff. We all need to band together and support each other in shouting it down and educating.

[-] SapphicFemme@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago

This is tiring for those whom are being attacked by that stuff in covert manner. Think about it from the minority persons perspective, day in day out they see abusive content, in media, their home and in discussion forums. It doesn't help to be forced to see this in a safe space either. The stuff i link in this post isn't good for the mental health and wellbeing of people.

[-] longshaden@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

It is not an attack to simply express disagreement, and not everyone who disagrees is coming from a place of hostility.

The whole point of a forum is for healthy dialogue. You can't just go around accusing everyone who disagrees with you as being abusive and disingenuous.

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