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For those asking, Wikipedia is a decent start:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place

[-] TheGreenGolem@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 7 months ago

I don't go very often, about once a month, but it's the bar with my friends.

[-] Servais@jlai.lu 1 points 7 months ago

I have two: my neighborhood library, and a few bars. Depends if I'm in a reading or socializing mood

[-] Linuto@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Sort of? Playing tabletop role-playing games is my go to, but that is either at a friend's house or my house.

[-] JackiesFridge@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

I am stressed out by groups of people and have some (not crippling) social anxiety. I tend to come home right after work as it's my happy place. I don't see the appeal of bars, libraries, etc as a Place To Be because I have my home (which is a privilege I am thrilled to be able to have) and bought one so that I can be there instead of out in an environment that isn't mine.

I do have a virtual third place if that counts - it's a Discord server. The people there are friendly and I can always lurk or leave if I don't want to socialise.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 1 points 7 months ago

What is a "Third Place"? The only definition I know is as a place that is neither home nor work in an urban environment but that is less personal.

[-] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 months ago

Correct. They largely went away for various reasons but still feature heavily in media.
OP is asking if you go to a place that is neither home nor work.

[-] JamesStallion@sh.itjust.works 0 points 7 months ago

I have no idea what this means.

[-] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 1 points 7 months ago

A place to regularly socialize that isn't home or work. Ideally somewhere that you can reach within walking distance of one of those other two places.

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