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[–] Rachelhazideas@lemy.lol 104 points 10 months ago (6 children)

Jokes aside, it's fucked up to normalize maiming a baby by cutting skin off their dick when they are unable to consent, all in an attempt to deprive them of their sexuality years later and rip away protection to a sensitive area for no reason other than tradition. Really, there is no medically substantiated reason is the vast majority of the population except in instances of a birth defect.

[–] e-ratic@kbin.social 46 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

It's always upsetting no matter what but the biggest upset is when people do this to their children when they're not even religious, which is common in the US and South Korea. I don't think some parents realise how abnormal it is.

This is a great presentation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGYq1n6Ipfw

[–] trucy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 10 months ago

Wow, now I feel bad for posting this. I haven't thought of this under this angle. Thank you for the eye opening!

[–] Buffaloaf@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago (3 children)

all in an attempt to deprive them of their sexuality years later

Was that the original intent? Because as someone who's circumcised I can tell you that didn't slow me down one bit

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Imma point out that you don’t have a point of comparison. It doesn’t cause a complete inability to feel pleasure, but it absolutely has a significant impact on sensitivity.

[–] nixcamic@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I feel like in most of the many Reddit threads about this (seriously, they're obsessed with foreskins) most people who were circumcised after becoming sexually active stated that they didn't feel that much of a difference. But maybe that's just what I took out of it to comfort myself since I'm circumcised haha.

That said I do think it's dumb to routinely perform unnecessary surgery with unknown side effects. All surgery carries risks and there have been many serious complications from circumcisions, which carry no meaningful benefits in modern society.

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I have heard similar, but I don’t think that’s directly comparable to having it done before becoming sexually active. Also it’s not just Reddit. I reckon a lot of people have an opinion on this one. I swear though, if one more person tries to tell me it’s “less clean” I’m going to tear their head off. I’ve known how to wash properly (uncircumcised) since I was single-digits old, bugger off!

[–] nixcamic@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Yeah that's kinda a dumb argument, we don't cut any other body parts off to save on washing up time.

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[–] faceless@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (8 children)

thats not the reason people do circumcision. most people do it for religious purposes. to argue that it is a human rights violation is to argue that people are not allowed to have a religion. religions such as Judaism circumcise because to show that they made a covenant with god. it is a huge important part of Judaism. you cant take away peoples religious beliefs if they arent being enforced on people who arent in that belief.

[–] Blum0108@lemmy.world 39 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Forced genital mutilation on people that are unable to consent.

How do you feel about female genital mutilation?

[–] faceless@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

while I think its harmful (it can cause severe inflammation leading to hospital visits) im not going to force others to conform to that belief

[–] Schmoo@slrpnk.net 20 points 10 months ago

Where do you draw the line? Human sacrifices used to be a common religious practice, but surely you wouldn't argue that we shouldn't force others to conform to the belief that murder is wrong.

Personally I think religious practices that cause actual harm to others deserve no protection. Beliefs are just beliefs, religious or otherwise. If I believe I should be allowed to mutilate others without consequence, no one would defend my right to "practice" my belief; but if it's part of a longstanding religious tradition it just gets a pass?

Traditions are only as good as the underlying reasons for them. If those have been forgotten or are otherwise no longer relevant, the tradition needs new justification just as any other new idea does.

[–] Rachelhazideas@lemy.lol 36 points 10 months ago

Religion doesn't supercede bodily autonomy. Period.

Your rights to practice religion ends when it starts infringing on the rights of another person. You are not entitled to harming others for your own religious needs.

You can do whatever you want with your own body in the name of religion. Just do not mutilate your own child.

Imagine if a different religion warrants cutting off the nipples of newborns, or ripping off a nail, or skinning a toe. That is how barbaric you sound when you say 'it's fine to cut off the skin of my child's penis'.

[–] naught@sh.itjust.works 25 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Are you aware the majority of Americans are not jewish but were subjected to genital mutilation after birth? It is not a religious thing here primarily, it's a practice that was started by a prude named Kellog to explicitly make it more difficult to masturbate and because it is "cleaner," which is a dubious claim at best.

[–] faceless@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

yeah outside religion I don't know why Kellogg did that. im talking about the type used for religious purposes.

[–] naught@sh.itjust.works 13 points 10 months ago

He did it to sexually stunt America in the name of Christianity and his warped morality. I would say that if a religion mandates you do something barbaric, then that practice should still be outlawed. I believe in a secular state where the rules of society and the greater good take precedence over myopic religious practices.

Similarly how the right to free speech does to let you go around making threats etc., the freedom of religion must not allow for crimes -- which I consider infant genital mutilation to be.

[–] shani66@lemmy.comfysnug.space 7 points 10 months ago

"outside of the reason he did it i have no idea why he did it"

[–] doggle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 10 months ago

To be clear, nobody is saying that circumcision is always a human rights violation. Only when it is done to a child who cannot consent. If an adult were to choose to get circumcised then that would be his right.

you cant take away peoples religious beliefs if they arent being enforced on people who arent in that belief.

This is exactly the problem. Children are typically circumcised shortly after birth. They are not part of any belief and cannot even speak, let alone consent to something as serious and irreversible as a circumcision. It is being forced on them.

People are allowed to have and practice their religion. They should not be allowed to force their beliefs on others, even their own kids.

If course this all ignores the fact that many circumcisions (in the US at least) are not performed for explicitly religious reasons.

[–] TIMMAY@lemmy.world 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

But they can take away my foreskin without my consent? No, fuck that and fuck the religions that normalize the mutilation of children's genitals. Wild that I even have to say that to you.

[–] Chakravanti@sh.itjust.works 17 points 10 months ago

They're enforcing their "belief" on people who cannot believe let alone consent.

Okay, but why should it be acceptable to induct a child into a religion from the moment of birth, spend their formative years being taught a belief system that they have no ability to think critically about, while isolating them from alternative systems of belief? Why shouldn't it be the norm to raise your children on the idea of all religious beliefs or lack thereof being equally valid and plausible, that we can't prove one or another definitively true so it becomes a matter of "what do you chose to have blind faith in?", and let them decide as an adult?

[–] Zirconium@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

TIL genital mutilation is religious purpose

[–] CaptnNMorgan@reddthat.com 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Circumcision deprives sexuality?? So I would be even MORE horny if I wasn't circumcised?! I can't believe that. I don't think my kids will be circumcised if I have ever have any because it is pretty archaic but I don't see any reason to be mad about it.

[–] RHOPKINS13@kbin.social 44 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Circumcision is a human rights violation.

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[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 35 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Under the circumstances, I agree.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 21 points 10 months ago

Circumwhatnow?

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 19 points 10 months ago

I've heard of kosher salt before, but fruits and veggies?

did they consent to it tho?

[–] Tomzomodest@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You put your nanas in the fridge?

[–] Daxtron2@startrek.website 8 points 10 months ago

I mean if you circumcise them you probably should keep them in the fridge

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 8 points 10 months ago

bananas in the fridge? weird

[–] Cap@kbin.social 7 points 10 months ago

She's still trying to figure out what he means when he says, "Just the tip."

[–] Old_Jimmy_Twodicks@sh.itjust.works 7 points 10 months ago

Always wondered what was in his fridge

[–] Prethoryn@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Just the tip?

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