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not a moral pr(ul)ecept (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by emstuff@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

sorry i got my rhetoric ™️ wrong last time i am just attempting to illustrate the thesis of Tolerance is not a moral precept by Yonatan Zunger so check that out if ur curious thanks babes <3

[Tolerance] is an agreement to live in peace, not an agreement to be peaceful no matter the conduct of others. A peace treaty is not a suicide pact.

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[–] Someboynumber5reborn@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dude the paradox of tolerance is literally saying we shouldn't tolerate in tolerance.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

But who defines what intolerance is or what subjects are ok to be intolerant of? Whoever has the most social or political power at the moment? That sounds like a recipe for disaster.

[–] Someboynumber5reborn@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Bro you're thinking way too hard it's literally just saying don't be a bigot

[–] dedale@kbin.social 13 points 1 year ago

Bro nobody in the history of mankind ever thought too hard.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I’d argue that others aren’t thinking hard enough. People want to establish these new rules to have things be the way they want them, even if it means suppressing free speech to get it. That’s all well and good until your side loses power and your speech is suppressed.

I agree, don’t be a bigot, but stop at equality for everyone, not suppression of those you may disagree with. That sends us right back down the bad path. I’m not saying you said that here, but I see it a lot these days and it worrisome.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Pretending that you can't specifically outlaw explicitly violent and hateful bigotry without someone else outlawing your own peaceful ideology is the mother of all slippery slope fallacies and is almost exclusively trotted out by people who agree with a lot of the ideology of the bigots.

There's nobody forcing us to go down any "bad path" just because we protect minorities from extremists. Just like there's NOT always two valid sides to an issue (see for example flat earthers, young earth creationists and other science deniers), you don't have to ban democracy in order to ban fascism.

[–] Melpomene@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

People conflate "ban bad actions" and "ban speech" when discussing tolerance; separating those is important. We should ABSOLUTELY ban violence and refuse to acknowledge laws and systems that advocate for those things. We should be both vocal and active in our rejections.

Speech is a separate issue. As stupid as antivaxxers are, as hateful as TERFs are, I don't want government telling them they can't speak. Any law we pass, we should ask ourselves how it might be abused by a bad actor. Better, at least to me, is to out and ruin anyone who expresses hateful, bigoted views.

[–] GlitchyDigiBun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To be clear, free speech does NOT protect from social consequence. Let them speak. Let them be ostracized, ridiculed, and demeaned for their hateful speech. Use your own free speech to ensure there are 10 voices of reason for every "loving" Christofacist telling them exactly what we took our stance for in 1865 and 1944. All humans are equal. All humans deserve life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness and every soapbox is at once a platform and a social noose.

[–] Melpomene@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

100% agree, and this is where I come out. Speak your mind as a fascist and get wrecked with social censure.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Violent and hateful acts of bigotry are outlawed and have been for quite a while.

Intolerance is more vague and happens largely in the mind. Sometimes those things in the mind can come out as speech or actions. Actions that violate the law should be punished, speech or thought would be very dangerous to outlaw.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

violent and hateful acts of bigotry are outlawed and have been for quite a while

Someone hasn't been paying attention to all the laws deliberately victimising and discriminating against racial minorities, LGBTQ+ people, poor people, unemployed people and all immigrants (not just the undocumented ones) coming out of Congress, the white house and the states for the last 250 or so years 🙄

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We can only talk about today, not 250 years ago. What are the laws today which support racial discrimination, for example? Lets get rid for those if they exist. I don't see how continuing to complain about stuff from 250 years ago, which was struct down long ago, is helpful for moving forward. We can't change the past, we can only change the outlook for the future.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

'For the last 250 years" means continuously, not that it stopped 250 years ago.

As for current laws which support racial discrimination? gestures towards the entirety of the "justice" and voting systems

Here's an overview article

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That overview doesn't really say anything other than ~~ trust us, it's there ~~

They want to charge me $32 to read the actual paper, which I'm not going to spend.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Tbf, anyone claiming that every sector of state and federal level American governance isn't dripping with systemic racism and other discrimination is either arguing in bad faith, wilfully ignorant or an idiot. I have a feeling you might be the trifecta.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I just always hear people talk about systemic racism, but never point to anything specific which can be changed or fixed. How can anything be fixed if it can't be defined? That's isn't bad faith, ignorant, or idiotic, it's how you solve problems. Step 1... define it. You'll never be satisfied if you don't know specifically what you're upset about, because you'll never know when it's been resolved. Are you just parroting others; is that why you resorted to personal insults instead answering the question for yourself? Instead you sent me to an article I assume you also haven't read, since it's behind a paywall.

I'm not saying there aren't things in society that can be improved. Everything can always be improved. But if you want any improvement to happen you need to know what those things are and be able to explain it. This shouldn't be a hard question for someone who claims to care.

I can probably get you started... can we assume gerrymandering is on the list? So then what would the solution be? I'm not an expert on political districts, do we just make in a grid across all the states, maybe scaling the size of the grid up or down to account for population density? I don't think there is a law that requires gerrymandering, but I'm on board with redrawing the districts to eliminate the madness there.

What else?

[–] ninpnin@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

try explaining that to eg. the terfs

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

If I had a dollar for every time I've argued with terfs about the stupidest of misconceptions, I'd probably buy a house..

[–] JackRiddle@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You cannot have equality for everyone if you allow intolerance to exist. You have to be intolerant to the intolerant in order to preserve a tolerant society.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

That’s one hell of a justification for intolerance.

Actions are what matter, and there are laws against actions.

I hate of glitter, I wish it didn’t exist, I don’t want it anywhere near me, and I don’t want people wearing it coming near me. One could call that intolerance of glitter. However, I’m not protesting and boycotting glitter companies. I’m not shouting at people in the street over it or harassing anyone. I’m not taking any action at all against glitter, except doing my best to stay away from it. I can only control myself, not the world. I’m still tolerant of the fact that it exists and there are people with a different opinion of me that like it. People being intolerant of my anti-glitter views by knowingly sending me glitter filled cards or whatever, isn’t going to make me more tolerant of glitter, it’s just going to make me think that person is an ass hole and I don’t want them around me. Meeting intolerance with intolerance is not a way to bring the world together, it just rips it further apart.

(While you can draw parallels, this is not a metaphor, I actually do hate glitter. There are dozens of us!)

[–] bear@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

but stop at equality for everyone, not suppression of those you may disagree with

Equality for everyone requires the suppression of those who would take away that equality, otherwise you eventually lose equality for everyone. This is similar to how maximizing freedom for everyone requires restricting your individual freedom to harm others, because in doing so you remove their freedoms. Your individual freedom is less, but the total amount of freedom in the system is greater for it.

Furthermore, it is not a moral failing, or even a difficult moral quandary, to suppress people for their actions and choices. We do it all the time to murderers and other criminals, or even people who don't shower. This can be done in multiple ways, including ways that do not involve state power. We frequently use social means to suppress people, for good or bad. A society simply works that way. And if they don't like it, they can simply choose to stop trying to take away equality; I cannot similarly choose to stop being the kind of person they want to take equality away from.

To protect equality we must win every fight; to lose it, they need only win once. Everybody is protected by equality so long as they believe in it. I do not believe that those who do not believe in equality should be extended its benefits, for they will seek to destroy it from within like a parasite.

[–] ssfckdt@mastodon.cloud 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Now hold on. Nobody said not tolerating meant suppressing. It means opposing.

That.... that's bigot rhetoric, and is full circle to the issue here. "You can't call me out for using the N word because MAH FREE SPEACH"

I agree with you about free speech -- and I would also argue that it extends to forums wanting freedom to choose what they contain.

There's always other forums. Private forums controlling their content isn't silencing. That's not how it works.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

40% of Millennials are onboard with limiting free speech.

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/11/20/40-of-millennials-ok-with-limiting-speech-offensive-to-minorities/

That's an alarmingly high number. I'm not "pro" offensive speech against anyone, but having the government limit it... that's a whole different conversation. I think a lot of younger people aren't making that distinction and are willing to throw the baby out with the bathwater. That worries me. Free speech is there to protect ideas from whatever the prevailing status quo at the time is... Galileo was found guilty of heresy, was banned from teaching, and sentenced to house arrest, because he said the Earth went around the Sun. Without free speech, how would people speak out against and challenge what they see as wrong with those in power?

[–] ssfckdt@mastodon.cloud 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're trying to tie a different issue to the discussion here and it's simply non sequitur.

We're not talking about restricting speech at a legal level, we're talking about opposing bad speech with good speech or by cultivating private fora where good speech is encouraged and bad speech discouraged.

You literally jumped down the pitfall of the rhetoric of the bigoted folks that I alluded to. Excellent aim, wrong target.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I think the distinction needs to be more clearly made, which is why I was trying to make it. A lot of people talk about opposing bad speech, and while you and I may believe that should only be at the social level, not a legal one, 40% of Millennials are missing that distinction, as it’s one that is rarely called and and just assumed people “get it”. Those assumptions lead to poor conclusions, those conclusions lead to action, and we lose our rights. I don’t think being clear about where the line is drawn is ever a bad thing.

People with less than pure motives can make a very compelling argument for suppressing speech to people who aren’t aware of the pitfalls. Schools used to teach this, but based on the statistics, it seems like the message is getting lost.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm intolerant of beliefs that harm people. That's the line. If what you want to do or what you believe harms another person, it shouldn't be tolerated.

[–] bob_wiley@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is equally vague. What constitutes harm, who defines what harm is?

If corporations are in change, they could argue that you not spending all your money on their product harmed them, because they didn’t meet their revenue targets this quarter.

A politician could say you not voting for them harmed their chances of getting elected.

Someone at the grocery store could say you harmed them by buying the last loaf of their favorite bread.

Also, believing something, devoid of any actions around it, is incapable of harming anyone. If someone believes cats shouldn’t exist, but goes about their life as a normal person, no one knows and no cats or cat people are harmed. Belief happens in the mind. We don’t want to go down the road or thought crimes.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That is equally vague. What constitutes harm?

Any action or inaction that physically, financially, or mentally damages another human being through malice or negligence.

who defines what harm is?

In a democracy? The people.

Belief happens in the mind. We don’t want to go down the road or thought crimes.

If you believe hurting a group of people, for any reason, is righteous you're more likely to commit crimes against that group. If we're going to start talking about slippery slopes, let's talk about the slippery slope of allowing hate to take root and spread in any society and how that's turned out in the past.

[–] Eladarling@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I thought the article did a pretty good job of addressing those points

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 1 year ago (1 children)

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[–] emstuff@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

my first exposure to the paradox its ambiguity was being used as an excuse to platform literal nazis on the basis of “being mean makes you the oppressor ☹️☹️☹️”

i for one welcome a philosophy that is more concrete and specific and doesn’t allow for such openings. tolerance as a contract does that for me. though as this comment section shows trying to express this position gets you labeled as maga so huge L for me i guess.

[–] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Interestingly enough, international waters work by a similar concept. A lot of people think no laws apply in international waters, but that's not the case. Anyone sailing there picks a country whose laws they will follow.

But what happens if you don't pick a flag and just decide you're not going to follow any laws?? Well then you're not protected by any laws either. Your ship can be sunk or seized by anyone and there isn't anything you can do about it because you decided you wanted to exist outside of any laws.

Tolerance works a bit like that. If someone choses to live outside of tolerance and just do what they want to others, then they forfeit their right to be protected by tolerance.

[–] emstuff@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 year ago

this is a cool fact and a valuable contribution to the conversation thanks homie ☺️

[–] rarely@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago

This sounds like some "trump being president is what the left gets gor being woke" bs. When we tolerate the people who want to obliterate other people, we find ourselves among the obliterated.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The side of intolerance will never extend you the courtesy of peaceful co-existence that you try to extend to them. If you give them a hand they'll take an arm. Give them the chance to talk and they'll take away your right to speak. You fundamentally can't make peace with someone who wants nothing more than to see you disappear.

[–] bl_r@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

Tolerance as a contract feels like the logical conclusion to the paradox of tolerance

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