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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] Allero@lemmy.today 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I feel it, but to me it's kind of positive.

Like, I can belong to a social group without being bombarded with nonsense that is just noise meant to distract.

It's the same kind of liberation and control I felt when switching to Linux (since you mentioned it) - one decision, and the entirety of Windows drama is no longer relevant to me. I'm part of a much smaller, much more concentrated group of real people, in a sort of blissful silence to which I only admit the information and people I find worth my attention.

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I made a community for survival horror games because I like them and like talking about it. Build it and they will come. Make a community to talk about things you like and those with similar interests will join.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We did have a Luka to the Lakers over on !nba@lemmy.world

Just saying.

I’m exclusively on the fediverse, I don’t feel disconnected from pop culture at all. There is a lot of politics and meta discussion, I’ll give you that

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Subscribed, thanks! I searched NBA on the global community search and got nothing, I wonder if it just wasn't federated on my instance yet.

I wish I was there losing my mind with the rest of you last week

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It’s hard to figure out why some communities show up and others don’t on the search. It’s definitely a good idea to subscribe to !newcommunities@lemmy.world and other communities like it to make sure you don’t miss them when they come up. I think someone was working on a better search for Lemmy but it seems to be abandoned

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Thank you, I couldn’t remember the latest community address when typing out my reply

[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There are bajillion other sites where you can wallow in mainstream pop culture and consume whatever slop that has been deemed as sufficently advertiser friendly. I am here to fly my freak flag high.

[–] slinkyjelly@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

I dunno I barely know what people are talking about anyways even when using reddit or twitter because most of my interests are aren't that mainstream

[–] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I mean, post the content and people will come? I think a lot of people would have commented on these things if they saw the thread

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 15 points 2 days ago (3 children)

This is true, but 1) It's hard going from a passive consumer of a community to a facilitator of discussions (I have anxiety issues lol) but also 2) It's hard to even know/find if there's a community TO post in, you know?

Maybe I'm just a Lemmy noob after almost two years here, but I do find community discoverability harder here, and there's always discussions of fractionating communities even further. I don't want to risk creating a new community, take up server space that my instance host generously provides, and then find out it was redundant.

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[–] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I specifically came here because I was uninterested in the pop culture chat that I was seeing in my socials. I want to talk to more people in less mainstream nerd culture

[–] BoxOfFeet@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Hmm.. maybe? But I'm ok with it. All those things in your second paragraph are things I'd never care about anyways.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 15 points 2 days ago (4 children)

DAE is what? I know, but i need reminding.

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

"Does anyone else" sorry, I was trying to keep the title snappy

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I know, thats why i asked for clarification. Thank you!

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[–] SatyrSack@feddit.org 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)
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[–] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 2 points 1 day ago (4 children)

That's why I'm here. This week, I learned who Kendrick Lamar and Drake are, and I feel stupider for it.

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[–] Supervisor194@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

It's not like Reddit stopped existing. Lemmy will (hopefully) never be Reddit. That means that some itches Reddit will still have to scratch.

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