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[–] GarlicToast@programming.dev 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

CRT screens and incandescent lamp.

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

Yeah those things would get HOT. like, hot enough to melt plastic. And they were really wasteful.

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[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago

Women having to get husband’s permission to open a bank account (speaking of the US).

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Vinyl (for music, not floors).

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[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 74 points 1 day ago (15 children)

Not 100% gone yet, but gas powered yard tools are dying. Battery powered tools are just better in 99% of use cases.

Two stroke engines do seem dead though which is awesome, because mixed gas was a massive pain in the ass.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Even better: tools on a wire

[–] morbidcactus@lemmy.ca 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

It's getting legit difficult to find corded tools, corded mowers are fine for the size of yard I have, but choice in those was extremely limited. Yeah battery ones exist, they're twice the price for the cheapest ones and only go up from there, I can live with an extension cord.

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[–] whodatdair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I remember fighting with gas weed whackers endlessly as a teen trying to do chores… having to dick with the choke for a cold start, having to pump prime them (and it being possible to over prime and lock them out), then you had to carry them around and use them with the exhaust at steak searing temperature… and if you didn’t know how to tune an idle they’d just die in your hands if you didn’t goose the throttle occasionally

This is a great one - don’t miss small gas engines even a little bit lol

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

Ngl I always thought starting 2-stroke engines was pretty fun. But I certainly don't miss the noise or the horrible pollution.

[–] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 day ago

I had a 11kW two-stroke motorbike and while it was very important for my rural youth, I do not want it back. Fuck the constant oil refueling, fuck the fumes, fuck the noise. If I ever get a motorbike again, it'd be electric.

[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

The fumes and noise of those little engines makes me excited that the battery versions are taking over.

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[–] sleepmode@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Pagers. Having to find a pay phone. Looking through newspapers for jobs. Absolutely gutless emissions- strangled malaise era cars with horrible brakes and numb steering.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 7 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Looking through the paper for a job was in some ways better. Now it's so hard to even get past the initial filters to an actual human because job postings get spammed with hundreds of applications, many from people who are underqualified and/or straight up lying on their resume. For remote jobs, you're competing against the whole country whereas with jobs in the paper you were mostly competing against those in your local area.

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[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 55 points 1 day ago (10 children)

At the risk of becoming too anti-casual, anti-gay slurs were so common in the US up until the mid/late 90s, if you weren't there for it you just have no idea. One of the Bill and Ted movies (I think the first one?) just randomly dropping it in there as a joke, where the slur is the joke, is a good example of just how it was then. There's still bigotry but it's not as casual and pervasive.

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[–] SatyrSack@feddit.org 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The lack of privacy, independence, and freedom that generally comes with childhood.

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[–] simple@lemm.ee 38 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Dial-up internet. I would open a website and go do something else for a minute until it loads, then fight with my parents when they pick up the phone when I've been downloading something for 3 hours.

[–] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We had very late internet infrastructure upgrade, so at the end we had a bluetooth dial-up internet router in the early 2010s...

[–] iii@mander.xyz 19 points 1 day ago

Internet over bluetooth is a crime against humanity

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[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

Medicine in general has gotten a lot better. I'm also able to buy stuff like silken tofu without having to drive quite far to find a specialty store that sells it.

[–] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago

May he rot into nothing and be forgotten

[–] TehBamski@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I'm glad that Furbys, inflatable furniture, and disposable cameras are no longer mainstream. And may they never return.

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[–] misk@sopuli.xyz 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] HenriVolney@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 day ago
[–] Hugin@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] exocortex@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like to have one around 😅. I like the look and it'll probably survive me

[–] Threeme2189@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Survive you or outlive you?

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