Why does it hurt so much seeing him leave with someone else?

He didn’t even give me a hug goodbye

My dreams the last two nights have been really dark. Not scary/nightmares, just very upsetting subjects. Really hope this doesn't become a pattern.

had the energy to get some chores done in the garden today ^_^

Update on talking to agency muckymucks about my transphobic coworker: he said the Facebook posts were accidental, and that he just has the technology aptitude of a boomer, and the real issue was him friending a coworker and getting caught.

Of course, he's also very explicitly ignoring all the trans women he works with here, so now I'm gathering accounts to bring that up to management.

I hate bra shopping. I have been wearing the same bra for nearly 5 years. It is now too small because I switched to CPA (also it's old lol) and I am sore as hell and where I used to be ok wearing it all day now I need to get the silly thing off at 2pm. How do I even start shopping online? Last time I measured it was kind of all over the place since I didn't really have a round shape. I remember it being a fucking ordeal last time in a department store trying to find something that fit me. Since I just switched to CPA a month ago, is it better to wait until the pain settles before upgrading since I'm not sure how much development I have left in me?

Basically, how y'all measuring?

I have a cute outfit I'm gonna wear tomorrow and I'm excited for that

I'm wearing a sun dress for Halloween and my costume is "person who refuses to let go of summer".

(really, I just want to wear the dress tho)

fucking love women

Humans are peculiar creatures.

down with cis

up with trans

@Luna@hexbear.net my gender carousel is going brrrrrrrrrrr again

Uh oh it has only been 3 days since I was last high and I am craving weed again. I may have a problem here

Curly's making the allstar team for cat hockey, his GAA% is fantastic

There's a solid layer of dirt on my face, except for where the KN95 mask was.

It's been so dry, and it makes leafblowing so dusty 😖

Is there a difference between gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia?

Is gender dysphoria like a subset of dysmorphia?

If a cis woman worries that she looks too masculine or a cis man frets about balding, do these count as gender dysphoria or dysmorphia?

What is the appropriate amount of worrying about one's appearance before it gets pathologized? Lol

No spoons today and they haven’t been coming back.

nintendo sues palworld not for blatantly copied pokemon designs but for "patent violations"

gamefreak leaks

leaks full of pokemon x human lore

caught up on the 2 latest miniminuteman videos. he put out a cool one on the social history of vampires in Europe. and oh my GOD I want to kiss that man so badly. why do I only ever form this sort of parasocial attraction to masc presenting youtubers? this is like the third time, it's always a dude

Got my epilator. The pain is significantly less than manual tweezing, so not bad at all. It's a cheaper one, so it needs to be plugged in and is a bit tough to clean, but I have been able to clear up my arms and hands at least.

EDIT: Also, when I use my cats come over and just watch me with concern. It's very cute.

i made everyone in tracha watch the rizzler on jimmy fallon with me... feeling loved and appreciated right now

big article about transfemininity & plurality comes out

it's from a structural dissociation pov

It is actually impossible for me to keep my bangs out of my eyes right now. Really should try and trim them up or something.