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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Waow these tucking pantys do be tucking well

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I like how all the right-wing attempts to create an alt-right pipeline for women have largely backfired. Classical Abby was laughed out of the room, pearlythings became a punching back, etc.

Then you see guys like Destiny and Asmongold. Cis men are apparently a lot easier to manipulate with a much lower bar of entry. You can look like a malnourished rat amped up on crushed Adderall with awful opinions and they’ll become your devoted cult members.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Still into this guy I hooked up with a few weeks ago and we talk most days. HOWEVER, a girl I'm friends with recently said some things to me that made me go hyperflush and my bi brain is in a state

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Finally started using a recorder for voice training. Game changer.

Wtf! That's a girl in the recording! That sounds like a girl! Who recorded thAt omg!?

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

flight landed. time to go be gay somewhere else now

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Wife bought me flowers 🥰

spoiler

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[–] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (5 children)

misery hourBeing bedbound sucks. Being bedbound and lonely sucks even more. doggirl-gloom

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

c/disabled has been created and is seeking moderators!

Only requirement is that you are disabled and a socialist.

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

About 2 and a half years into HRT and I... am fucking hot. It's such a good feeling being even slightly more comfortable in my body than I was before.

And I'll keep getting hotter and hotter. aubrey-happy

[–] naom3@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (5 children)

bad jokeFeeling really frustrated that I’m constantly searching for and ordering new parts for my project until I realized it’s the estrogen: I be shopping now

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

coming out stuffI'm planning to visit my family soon, and I've been thinking about what to do regarding my grandparents. They're old, rural Europeans and I doubt they even know what a trans person is. When I saw them this summer it that was the last time I boymoded, and that just made me feel bad, and I can't just wear a sports bra and a sweater to hide things now, like I could then. What I've decided to so far is to just present fem like I normally do, and if they have questions I'll answer honestly, but I won't have a big coming out moment or be particularly insistent that they gender me correctly (at least for now).

Maybe it's a bit cowardly, but I feel like it's a good compromise so far, not actively hiding who I am, but hopefully not overwhelming them either. They probably won't say anything either way, because they're so ingrained in this annoying cultural idea that asking people anything that could in any way feel uncomfortable for you or for them is better left unsaid in every situation.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (4 children)

The flight attendants are soo British doggirl-smug

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (7 children)

All done moving in.

My dad said a weird thing at the airport before I left: “Be a shepherd not a sheep.” Then he repeated it on a voicemail.
The flight was smooth, except for the beginning, I was brave about it.
Used the men’s restroom at the airport despite someone ma’aming me earlier because I am a coward.
Iron Bru is overrated.

That is all.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (4 children)
[–] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

This is how “LGB without the T” started…

[–] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

The British have colonized the gays

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I got approved for a bridge welfare payment while my disability application processes lets-fucking-go have to jump through some more bureaucratic hoops to get at the money which is a pain but I have payments building up starting today!!!! happened way quicker than I thought, really happy:)

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

successfully channeled my trans girl powers into fixing my computer today

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (8 children)

people get weirded out when they see i have my mouse on the left of my keyboard, but are unprepared entirely for the fucked up controls i use in video games

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I’ve been feeling more confident about myself lately, but for some reason in the last week or so my self-esteem has went back down and now doubting and second guessing. doggirl-gloom

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

spoilerI was SUCH a shitty boyfriend, a slightly better girlfriend but still not all that good. Wish I could've done better

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

cw transphobia, struggle seshI was looking at some old struggle sessions Jack linked recently, and I guess because I am a digital self harmer, I went ahead and looked at the Trans Woman Dating "discussion" thread.

I Hate Cisnormativity I Hate Allosexuals I hate Absolutely Everything

While it's fun to see that the bearsite has improved by leaps and bounds, (huge amounts of accts in that thread are permabanned) it's not so nice to watch what had to happen. TC_69...

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So a coworker is being hugely transphobic online. He doesn't say anything explicit at work, though he notably does leave the room whenever I or my trans coworkers enter the office. We are a culturally-specific organization that works with a lot of trans individuals. Leadership is saying that because he's just saying this stuff outside of work on social media, it's fine.

How do you work with someone knowing they hate you in their personal life?

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Hope all of my transgender comrades have a nice day. The veil is thin between worlds, make it thinner between genders. anarchist-occult

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My cypro has been lower for like maybe a week and I can already feel the T horny coming baaaaack

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (10 children)

oh hey, new mega.

you know what that means??? lets-fucking-go

DOWN WITH CIS

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Well, I'm burnt out and breaking down. Time to start breaking her out:

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

got vegan bhan mi with my girlfriend and now we're playing mario kart 8 comfy-cool

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Can someone tell me to clean my room? If you can incentivise me with like doggirl photos that would be cool

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (8 children)

my therapist more or less kind of straight up told me that i should either ask that one girl i like if she likes me back or to stop assuming that every girl dislikes me because they haven't told me explicitly otherwise. i guess i should probably ask if she likes me back but i'm like 96% sure the answer is no here and I'd rather not make this week any worse on me

god this week has been so fucking awful i hate everything sadness-abysmal

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Waiting for that moment after a laser session where the hair starts falling out normal

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

dissociation/dysphoriaI don't understand what's happening. Things should not actually be this hard for me. I should be okay. But I don't feel okay. Its wrong. I feel disconnected. And then I'll be reminded of the wrongness. I'll speak, or feel my body, or hear "my" name. I feel like I'm in a dream. But this isn't a dream.

spoiler self harm, scars I have a very strong desire to sh. I have the accidental stuff from shaving, it hurts but I want more. There's always more. I'm somehow 13 days free from using something sharp. I can't sh. I don't want to keep getting more scars. I'm already upset about what I have. :::

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[–] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

therapist stopped practicing lol lmao

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

still hasn't sunk in that my wife will be here

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I added more emojis to the Catgirl emoji request post, with suggested emoji names and keywords! Hopefully they get accepted soon, so we have cats to match our puppies doggirl-happy

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 16 points 1 month ago

Hung out with my parents (whom I'm still delaying on coming out to) just wearing a tshirt and suspected it was kinda obvious my chest has changed a bit. Afterwards, I decided to ask my brother for extenal confirmation, and he confirmed. So that's cool.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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